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…e group first. It does not matter if anyone in the group is suffering, because that person will not care. If there is a more serious situation, even siblings will separate from one another because one per…

of warning that person, tired of teaching that person, or tired of advising that person, it will manifest into a family in which each family member lives on their own in the same house. There will not

…ge in the area of interest. 2.2) You must listen to your teacher. That means that you should listen carefully to your teacher. Listen many times over and ask questions until you truly understand. It is im…

involvement with this distrustful person. Good people will not want to befriend dishonest people because they do not want to gain a bad reputation through association. So if a person in a family does

…rents, you have to find the right method to correct yourself, including training yourself to not be careless. This is not easy to do so. For some of us, it may take our entire lives to correct these bad h…

Those who have full knowledge, ability and goodness must follow only this path in order to train themselves to keep up with the world and its people, and not surrender to defilements. Surely, if you f

…e of and the other side was selfish. Family members will end up living separately and they will not care about each other. For instance, suppose there is a family composed of a husband and a wife, but the…

4) Sacrifice or caga is the means to correct the problem of selfishness. Charity means sacrifice. There are 3 types: 1) Sacrifice of material objects 2) Sacrifice of comfort 3) Sacrifice of negative e

…nd up killing one another. Those who have not yet gotten married or are about to get married should carefully consider that when a couple is married, they should be able to depend on each other in sicknes…

own personal desires, and the husband and wife do not combine their incomes from the beginning, that means that one is preparing go one's separate way from the start because neither person is thinking

…e duties of a good spouse, in-laws, parents, and relatives, the duties associated with a successful career, to the many duties that arise in a community. In all of these categories, you must have an elder…

3) They must have a life teacher or a good counselor advising them on marriage and relationships. Otherwise, it is possible that they will not be able to maintain a long relationship. 4) They must be

…ty. She will not be a squanderer or a penny pincher. 2.5 Diligence. She will work hard to take good care of the house, and will not indulge herself in vices. In a traditional Thai marriage, when the bride…

1. Five Responsibilities of a Husband to His Wife 1.1 Appreciation. The husband should openly respect her as his lawful wedded wife, not furtively keeping her like a mistress. If his wife does somethi

…should make sure that the meals served to the family are wholesome and that the relatives are taken care of when it comes to food. 7. Find an appropriate place to sit. This means one must know and show th…

When they reached Magadha, which was 112 kilometers from the capital of Kosol, Tanachai asked King Pasantikosol, "The city is small and I have a large number of retinue with me. It will be inconvenien

…absolute purity) 2. Smart or not being ignorant (The Lord Buddha's supreme wisdom) 3. Demonstrating care towards others (The Lord Buddha's ultimate compassion) Any child who possesses these three characte…

knowledge and moral training from their parents. The parents never leave their children to the mercy of nature. Even though they may not be wealthy, their children have the ability to develop a solid

…en's Habits come from? After parents learn that good children must not be troublesome, ignorant, or careless towards others, the question now is, how do parents cultivate these traits in their children? G…

…en's Habits come from? After parents learn that good children must not be troublesome, ignorant, or careless towards others, the question now is, how do parents cultivate these traits in their children? G…

…. If you love your children, spend time with them." Since children read books, we should take great care in selecting them. If they want to read comics or biology, we must read along with them. One proble…

Be a good role model for the children to observe The first factor is the most difficult because many parents do not realize how influential they are to their children. Before we can begin to be good r

…en to do good deeds. 3) Provide education for their children so that they will have knowledge for a career and learn responsibility. 4) When the time comes for their children to select a life partner, hel…

1. Teach your children. In a household where children have not developed bad behavior, then they should be taught about right and wrong and how to demonstrate self-discipline. 2. Address the problem i

…ll single. This way, they can approach marriage with their eyes wide open and select their partners carefully and prudently. Chapter 22 The Roads That Lead to Ruin Many young recent graduates are usually …

Single women please keep in mind that men who are faithful and who abstain from alcohol are hard to find. Therefore, you are better off being single. It is a wiser choice. According to the Law of Kamm

…is like buying problems into your own life. It will ruin not only your finances but eventually your career and your entire life. If you realize the foolishness of your behavior, you must seek to remedy it…

"How much do you spend in a year going out to clubs?" "I guess about two or three times the amount spent on liquor." "Son, you contribute about 2,000 to 2,500 baht every year to making merit, but at t

… and cannot find security in life. Gambling, no matter in what form, is a source of destruction and carelessness. It is best to never get involved. Therefore, during the frenzied soccer season, we should …

because all of their money is lost. When they win, it is never enough. With each passing day, they can lose their jobs and other important things without even realizing it. 4) Gambling destroys one's

…vancing myself until I was able to be a good provider, own my own business, become proficient in my career, and keep abreast of people around me and world events. I was able to control myself not to succu…

…vancing myself until I was able to be a good provider, own my own business, become proficient in my career, and keep abreast of people around me and world events. I was able to control myself not to succu…

…o wait for almost a year, and while waiting, we have to water it, turn over the soil, and take good care of it. Otherwise, after a year, we may end up eating scrawny bananas. "And if you ask me if we get …

However, the first step in achieving this goal is to convince the parents that good deeds always bring good outcomes, and vice versa. The following episode should help clarify this principle. A layper

…nscience and therefore act according to their instincts. For instance, we do not see animals taking care of their parents. But human beings possess a conscience, as revealed by their feelings of gratitude…

What is the Nature of Human Beings? The nature of human beings consists of five characteristics. 1. By nature, humans will not kill. A human who takes life has deviated from the nature of humankind. H

…y. Its citizens are dissatisfied and afraid, yet nobody can do anything about it. If parents do not care to teach their children to abide by the Five Precepts, there is no hope that society will improve. …

4. We shall not lie, utter profanity, speak nonsense, or use divisive words. 5. We shall not consume intoxicants such as addictive drugs and alcohol. These Precepts are needed to keep peace on earth.

…hat will come with your responsibilities. Even by remaining single, having to make a living, taking care of one's parents, a person barely has enough time left for oneself. After being married, one must p…

"Even though we may dislike difficulties and welcome happiness, there is no way to avoid suffering in our lives because life is a mixture of suffering and happiness. Instead, we should prepare for the