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…ig family - not a seasonal camp. Wherever you are or whether you go to the camp - this is no longer important because we the house brothers and sisters will always be with you. - Tan Lethi (Tan) Mentors The be…

the newcomers will have good time there just like I had. YUWA CAMP taught me to become a self-reliant, competent and good person. Warakorn Sermcheep (Fang Kao) At the camp, I knew many new friends, pr

…pter 8 Killing with Kindness: Parents Defending Children When They Misbehave 119 Chapter 9 The Four Important Roles Parents Must Play in Raising Good Children 125 Chapter 10 Raising Our Children to be Good Peo…

May every family that reads this book, have happiness, success, and the resolve to always perform good deeds. We dedicate the merits accrued through every written word in this book, to our great grand

… responsible. In analyzing how a family operates, each member's sense of responsibility is the most important element. If a family member lacks responsibility, then suspicion among family members will be the i…

Although the solution is not simple, that does not mean there is no path to correct and prevent them from occurring. If each person realizes what the heart of the family is and everyone takes the best

…tever warning one must give to a friend, one must be straightforward. One must be sincere. And most importantly, one must not be biased or prejudiced in any of the following four ways: biased because of love, …

1.1) Responsibility in duty and work. This means, no matter what the work is, the amount of work, its ease or difficulty, whether or not the situation is favorable, whether or not the budget is limite

…refully to your teacher. Listen many times over and ask questions until you truly understand. It is important to understand clearly what your teacher is teaching, in theory, method, practice, and so on, as far…

involvement with this distrustful person. Good people will not want to befriend dishonest people because they do not want to gain a bad reputation through association. So if a person in a family does

…ll get, how many millions you will spend to buy a house, all of those things are unstable, the more important question you should be asking is, "Are you sure you can tolerate me?" If you really think about it,…

there is something that still displeases us. When we are displeased with ourselves, they are considered weaknesses that have turned into bad habits. And we will notice that we have overlooked so many

…heir individual happiness. The foundations of livelihood are the Four Requisites. However, the most important aspects one must know before allocating funds for the Four Requisites are: One must be able to dist…

4) Sacrifice or caga is the means to correct the problem of selfishness. Charity means sacrifice. There are 3 types: 1) Sacrifice of material objects 2) Sacrifice of comfort 3) Sacrifice of negative e

… purify the mind. Our grandparents insist that anyone getting ready for marriage achieve these four important factors first, so that they can handle all the responsibilities that marriage will bring them. They…

The major concern is that, if the couple didn't learn how to regulate their emotions before their marriage, they would not be able to handle their disagreements in a positive manner, causing everyone

…by the majority of the people. They have many virtues because their own marriages embodied the four important factors of a marriage: 1) They must truly embrace Dhamma for Laypersons, otherwise they will not be…

that warn, "Sweet words are more devastating" or "Sweet beginning, bitter ending" or "Sweet mouth, sour bottom." 4th Level: Beauty of Mind - This is the beauty of the virtue within a person, which can

…ther or not we encounter the 8 Worldly Conditions, we are all subject to these principles. The most important thing in life is that The Warm Hearted Family 66 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family.…

When we receive fortune, prestige, recognition or happiness, our minds will remain calm, not overwhelmed or attached. A person who is aware of suffering and happiness has trained the mind to be as sta

…Ten Suggestions from a Father to His Daughter on Her Wedding Day resulted in a daughter becoming an important figure in her husband's family. Her husband, his parents, and his relatives gave her love, respect …

Despite the behavior of one spouse, one should never waver from the Dhamma. Occasionally, the husband may go astray or the wife will resort to frivolous behavior, wasting time and money, leaving the h

…xcitement is a natural reaction to an impending birth, it is also an opportunity to reflect upon an important question: even though we are born human and are related to another, what makes us different? What d…

with them. In that situation, angry words will only make the situation worse. It is better to wait when they are no longer angry before gently explaining the situation. 10. Pay homage to the angels. W

… and be fearful of sin. This can be accomplished by reading to The Warm Hearted Family 127 The Four Important Roles Parents Must Play in Raising Good Children

In addition to being good parents and performing parental duties, they should also assume the following roles: 1. The role of a teacher. Parents must teach children to discern what is right and wrong,

…must spank them." Find a good teacher to teach the children The subject of teachers is an extremely important one because they are the strongest outside influences that promote virtues in children. Since we ar…

Be a good role model for the children to observe The first factor is the most difficult because many parents do not realize how influential they are to their children. Before we can begin to be good r

… your children with them. They will have good influence on one another on several aspects. The most important thing for parents is to keep their children away from bad people and Apāyamukha (Roads to Ruin), wh…

trees, and every single dollar is hard-earned by their parents. Children will then know the value of money and will use it wisely. 2. Teach children not to spend lavishly. Please don't buy anything lu

…dation for vision and wisdom in their futures. In order for children listen to their parents, it is important that parents be good examples themselves. Then the children will obey. If parents are still addicte…

watch television whenever they want. They must have a set time for homework, reviewing lessons, reading and helping with household chores. Parents must set proper schedules and never allow the childre

… Precepts. They should not kill even an ant or a mosquito. 5) Invite them to meditate. This is very important. You could have the patient listen to a chanting tape or a Dhamma tape by a monk that the patient r…

(Derajchanpome: Earth) a hungry ghost, a demon, or a Hell creature (Pretapume, Asurakayapome, or Narokkapume: Hell). Sugati and Duggati are the destinations of those who pass away where they must face

…riends fighting or stealing our food or toys because we were always well fed and provided for. Most importantly, we received love and warmth from our parents and relatives. We saw the world in a positive light…

Luang Phaw wanted their son to witness what difficulties face children who do not have parents. With his eyes now open, he may change and love and value his parents more from seeing these unfortunate

…acked or arrested by the police. His gratification is temporary, but his fear stays with him. It is important to teach our children when they are young to believe that good deeds always bring favorable outcome…

understanding of how to eliminate the defilements, His superb purity in being able to achieve Nibbana, and His compassion in selflessly devoting His life to showing human beings how to achieve what He

…ecepts That Parents Should Know Teaching their children to abide by the Five Precepts is the utmost important responsibility of parents to help counteract social deterioration. However, before they are capable…

can we expect the younger generation to see the importance of observing the precepts? This unfortunate situation has led more people to disregard the precepts until ignorance has become the norm. And