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…ly problems stem from the kilesa that resides in the couple. This starts when these two people, who love one another, decide to live together as husband and wife and agree to start a family. When two peop…

As this is the inaugural World Peace Ethics Contest, I regard all of you who have agreed to participate as history-makers in the forging of World Peace in our world - you are pioneers in bringing fort

…ping every reader achieve success in creating a warm and happy family who supports one another with love and understanding. May everyone have a strong family foundation, complete with knowledge, capabilit…

The presence of the newborn will force the parents to work even harder, so they will have enough to care for the child. The more children they decide to have; the more their responsibilities will incr

…ortantly, one must not be biased or prejudiced in any of the following four ways: biased because of love, biased because of hatred, biased because of stupidity, or biased because of fear. 1.4) Responsibil…

1.1) Responsibility in duty and work. This means, no matter what the work is, the amount of work, its ease or difficulty, whether or not the situation is favorable, whether or not the budget is limite

…ty. If the husband and wife lack the morals in being together, they will not be able to sustain the love they have towards each other on a long-term basis, since the heart of the family is based on the fo…

3) They must have a life teacher or a good counselor advising them on marriage and relationships. Otherwise, it is possible that they will not be able to maintain a long relationship. 4) They must be

…t have a solid foundation of Dhamma in order to assume this role. They must train their children to love merit and be fearful of sin. This can be accomplished by reading to The Warm Hearted Family 127 The…

In addition to being good parents and performing parental duties, they should also assume the following roles: 1. The role of a teacher. Parents must teach children to discern what is right and wrong,

…seniority. So, why would I want argue with my sisters. This practical lesson brought us together to love each other. Technique #2: Responsibility for Housework Because our family had a farm, on the weeken…

In the end, she made the decision to ask a respected senior monk at a temple. She told him that her two sisters were still in school. When they graduated and could look after themselves, there would b

…nstill a feeling of unity in your children by teaching them seniority. When they grow up, they will love and look after each other. If they feel down or fall on rough times, their siblings will not let th…

However, I recommend following the first two pieces of advice first: Your parents should reduce their allowances and have them help each other at tasks. Children won't allow others to take advantage o

…sing their ability to function. Therefore it is crucial that we learn how to care for those that we love when they are sick. Caring for these people will teach us to care for their minds, as well, while t…

home there would be a big water basin with a scooper or a cup next to it. If a passerby was thirsty, he could quench his thirst. A simple water basin becomes a basin of value, converting plain water i

…wn good fortune. It might even help turn him around." The Warm Hearted Family 185 The Unconditional Love of Parents

If their parents are not wealthy enough to satisfy their whims, they disparage them as being lazy. They complain about being embarrassed by their parents' thriftiness. Sometimes, they bully their pare

…apable of separating good from bad, but do not impart that knowledge to their children. Since their love and concern for their children are so great, they can become overprotective. They forbid their chil…

Children often encounter problems later in life because the parents did not fulfill these responsibilities. Why Do Some Children Behave Badly? Our ancestors provided us with a very interesting answer.

…ld not promote or encourage a gambling environment at home, work or school. 4) We should explain to loved-ones the destruction caused by gambling, and how it has never made anyone rich. Why do gamblers no…

These penniless people, who have lost all their money on gambling, will then turn to the bookies for loans. If they cannot come up with the money to repay their debt, they will resort to criminal acti

… never get involved. Therefore, during the frenzied soccer season, we should protect each other and loved-ones from becoming involved in gambling. This requires a group effort in explaining the harmful ef…

because all of their money is lost. When they win, it is never enough. With each passing day, they can lose their jobs and other important things without even realizing it. 4) Gambling destroys one's

…heir parents. But human beings possess a conscience, as revealed by their feelings of gratitude and love towards their parents. Conscience is enduring. It can withstand starvation, exhaustion, and sicknes…

What is the Nature of Human Beings? The nature of human beings consists of five characteristics. 1. By nature, humans will not kill. A human who takes life has deviated from the nature of humankind. H

…t Society inviting students to ordain during their summer The Warm Hearted Family. 292 Instilling a Love of Meditation in Our Children The Warm Hearted Family 293 Ordaining for One's Parents Brings Merit

visualizing the Buddha image. When they grow up, we can be sure that our children, when facing problems, will stay cool, calm and collected. "Can meditation really change a human being? When we open o

…face is full of joy. Her son, attired in white novice robes, is bowing low at her feet showing deep love and respect for her, and symbolically asking for permission to ordain. The caption says, "Ordain wh…

The caption says, "Ordain while your mother is still alive to show her your gratitude." Any mother who sees this poster will wish that her son will ordain at least once. And any son who sees it will b

…llectual in secular affairs, and a sage in Buddhism, so his life will not be wasted." Ordaining for Loved Ones These days, in pursuing their goals in life, most men tend to be moving further away from the…

informed of right and wrong. In elevating their moral standards, they will gain more merits. And finally, while at the temple, they will see that other people are observing the precepts and practicing

…be worn down and this will cause us and our children to feel uneasy. Without gratitude and the true love our children have for us, we may become neglected. However, some are only patiently caring for thei…

In Buddhist teachings, parents are revered as Arahantas in the family. They are the first teachers to their children. There is a Thai saying that at the parents' feet are gateways to the heavenly real

…possess the same feelings that their elderly parents had, which are feelings of hurt from not being loved, of being a burden for the family, of not belonging there, and even of feeling inferior to a house…

grandparents. Moreover, they must extol their grandparents' virtues to their children, both in the grandparents' presence and out of earshot. By setting a good example, children will clearly see and l