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…he family. Expensive perfume is unnecessary and luxurious. Alcohol and wine are one of the Roads to Ruin; they are substances that damage one's health and are of negative value to society. So if both the …

4) Sacrifice or caga is the means to correct the problem of selfishness. Charity means sacrifice. There are 3 types: 1) Sacrifice of material objects 2) Sacrifice of comfort 3) Sacrifice of negative e

…important thing for parents is to keep their children away from bad people and Apāyamukha (Roads to Ruin), which are the most serious enemies of saving. 6. Teach children to observe the 8 Precepts on Budd…

trees, and every single dollar is hard-earned by their parents. Children will then know the value of money and will use it wisely. 2. Teach children not to spend lavishly. Please don't buy anything lu

…he sexualizing of children, and its consequences like child prostitution, that lead to the Roads of Ruin (Apāyamukha). "If we want to rectify this situation, we must first understand the purposes for wear…

this problem, we must teach them good behavior and how to dress appropriately while they are still young. "The Lord Buddha said, 'Do not dress inappropriately.' "Dressing inappropriately means dressin

…their own legacy. The Warm Hearted Family 193 Children Who Are Addicted to Apayamukha (the Roads to Ruin)

1. Teach your children. In a household where children have not developed bad behavior, then they should be taught about right and wrong and how to demonstrate self-discipline. 2. Address the problem i

…Alcoholic Husband The Warm Hearted Family 198 Children Who Are Addicted to Apayamukha (the Roads to Ruin) A husband who is unfaithful and who drinks alcohol to excess can cause a family to fall apart. How…

Even before problems arise, if parents discus these topics with their children, lovingly and rationally, their children will understand the immense love parents have for them. This can be the starting

Chapter 26 Fathers That Children Hate Sometimes when a father is addicted to the roads to ruin, [Apāyamukha] and unable to be the leader of the household, the responsibilities fall upon the moth…

[Apāyamukha] and unable to be the leader of the household, the responsibilities fall upon the mother. If this situation occurs regularly in the family, the children will often feel that their father i

…can extend themselves too far: They work too hard without getting enough rest until their health is ruined. On top of this, they work on borrowed funds. Their hard work hurts them physically and financial…

Knowing the objective of an undertaking is not enough to guarantee the quality of that effort. If a person stops short of a wholehearted attempt, the objective may be realized, but the quality is poor

…me cases are even worse because individual family members live on their own in the same house. This ruins the relationship between parent and child, while they remain ignorant of the problem's root. If yo…

The elderly represent the heart of the whole family. If their voices that speak of Dhamma, encouragement or caution are absent, it would seem like the family's heart stops functioning. At the same tim

…he argument. Descendants who are taught well in childhood will not give in to temptations (Roads to Ruin) at all. By observing the five precepts they will live a peaceful life. On the contrary, today's so…

family members fight over property or money. This causes the decline of the very best in the family and problems can only increase. Since our ancestors fully understood this fact, they led their desce

…that yakkha fiend. Then the caravan leader said to the carters: "That caravan, my masters, met with ruin and disaster, through having that silly caravan leader for its guide. Well then, let us leave here …

This Life Next Life And he advises us to throw away our provender, so that, with lightened carts we may travel quicker and not weary our teams. But this man, Sirs, is not friend of ours, nor a kinsman