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การจัดการอารมณ์ในครอบครัว
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การจัดการอารมณ์ในครอบครัว
…e necessary for a successful marriage. Expectations in Marriage Our grandparents told us the direct truth regarding the reason people get married, which is that they lack self- confidence; they are not sur…
The major concern is that, if the couple didn't learn how to regulate their emotions before their marriage, they would not be able to handle their disagreements in a positive manner, causing everyone
ความคาดหวังในชีวิตคู่
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ความคาดหวังในชีวิตคู่
…'s good behavior. They were mistaken when they thought their spouse would always be polite, but the truth is people can not sustain wonderful manners 24 hours a day. If the search for a life partner is bas…
hope that you will find someone else to help you with the many things in life. There are some who get married because they expect that their spouse will treat them favorably in different ways; and at
ความสำคัญของที่ปรึกษาการแต่งงาน
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ความสำคัญของที่ปรึกษาการแต่งงาน
…lity. This especially applies to a person who possesses Dhamma for Laypersons, which is composed of truthfulness, self-discipline, endurance, and sacrifice. Importance of a Marriage Counselor The beauty of…
that warn, "Sweet words are more devastating" or "Sweet beginning, bitter ending" or "Sweet mouth, sour bottom." 4th Level: Beauty of Mind - This is the beauty of the virtue within a person, which can
ความเข้าใจในสภาพชีวิต
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ความเข้าใจในสภาพชีวิต
…r the causes of infatuation or fright, our grandparents tried to teach us to be aware of these life truths through meditation practice to still our minds and prevent them from being vulnerable to the Eight…
Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in this world, we are subject to both gratification and disappointment; it is a matter o
หลักการของความไม่เที่ยง
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หลักการของความไม่เที่ยง
…itions and will, therefore, be in a state of suffering all the time. The Lord Buddha understood the truth of everything in this world. He taught meditation so people could learn to still their minds like t…
When we receive fortune, prestige, recognition or happiness, our minds will remain calm, not overwhelmed or attached. A person who is aware of suffering and happiness has trained the mind to be as sta
The Birth of a Meritorious Person
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The Birth of a Meritorious Person
…When we view the world and understand the effects of kamma, we will be determined to lead our lives truthfully and on the right path. The consequences of kamma are real and they will bear fruit. If we perf…
child to be born to her. When someone from a fortunate realm is ready to be reborn, he will choose the best and most generous mother. Once he enters the womb, he brings good fortune to his mother and
การเลี้ยงดูเด็กให้มีความเอื้อเฟื้อ
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การเลี้ยงดูเด็กให้มีความเอื้อเฟื้อ
…urance. At first glance, it seems like it is enough for children to be wholesome and smart, but the truth is, it is not enough. When one is born as a human being, one must bring benefit to others as well. …
2) If they do not keep the second Precept (No stealing) then: They might engage in corruption. 3) If they do not keep the third Precept (No sexual misconduct) then: They might engage in prostitution.
การศึกษาเกี่ยวกับพุทธศาสนา
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การศึกษาเกี่ยวกับพุทธศาสนา
…laypersons. There are four virtues, and they are called Dhamma for Laypersons (Gharāvās-dhamma). 1. Truthfulness (Sacca) "This first virtue taught me to be sincere, straight-forward, and honest. Remember, …
This question has prompted me to study Buddhism seriously, which has given me an understanding of life: 1. Death is not the end. We still have to be reborn indefinitely, as long as we have not rid our
ธรรมชาติของมนุษย์
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ธรรมชาติของมนุษย์
… in order to maintain our nature. 4. By nature, humans will not lie. People should always speak the truth. They should always be honest and sincere to one another. Hence the fourth Precept reminds us not t…
What is the Nature of Human Beings? The nature of human beings consists of five characteristics. 1. By nature, humans will not kill. A human who takes life has deviated from the nature of humankind. H
การรักษาศีลห้าให้มั่นคง
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การรักษาศีลห้าให้มั่นคง
…erybody loves their family and friends. Why should we not lie? Because every body loves honesty and truthfulness. Why should we not consume intoxicants? Because it will destroy our conscience. Without our …
How do you keep the Five Precepts intact? When I was a student, I started training myself to observe the Five Precepts. This is how I did it. Before I was ordained, I wore a Buddha image around my nec
การเตรียมตัวรับความทุกข์
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การเตรียมตัวรับความทุกข์
…essary suffering. "Some people may think that this teaching is based on a pessimistic view. But, in truth, it is a realistic teaching which tells you how to deal with life situations. "The Lord Buddha was …
"Even though we may dislike difficulties and welcome happiness, there is no way to avoid suffering in our lives because life is a mixture of suffering and happiness. Instead, we should prepare for the
แนวทางการใช้ชีวิต
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แนวทางการใช้ชีวิต
…nes or right teachings 9. Giving Dhamma sermons (Dhammadesanāmaya) Teaching the doctrine or showing truth 10. Forming the Right View (Ditthujukamma) Strengthening one's views or forming correct views "In s…
3. Purify the mind: Keep one's mind bright and clear all the time, while inhaling and exhaling. If a person inhales and does not exhale, that person's life will come to an end. Death bears no sign of
การกำจัดความโลภและความขัดแย้งในครอบครัว
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การกำจัดความโลภและความขัดแย้งในครอบครัว
…time, leading to endless hatred. With their wisdom and vision, our ancestors deeply understood this truth and its cause and effect. By teaching The Warm Hearted Family 338 Blessing Our Descendants The Warm…
family members fight over property or money. This causes the decline of the very best in the family and problems can only increase. Since our ancestors fully understood this fact, they led their desce
การกำจัดความโกรธและการฝึกสติ
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การกำจัดความโกรธและการฝึกสติ
…r inappropriate. Mindfulness protects one from recklessness. Our ancestors were well aware of these truths, which is why they taught themselves to be mindful when they were young. They believed and followe…
their families to have control over themselves at a young age, the grandparents instilled them with generosity through alms offerings to the monks and daily observance of the five precepts. These whol
การให้พรที่มีความศักดิ์สิทธิ์
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การให้พรที่มีความศักดิ์สิทธิ์
…he Lord Buddha's temple, I have never thought of exploiting or harming any living beings. With this truth, may you safely give birth to your child." "After his powerful blessing, the woman easily and safel…
A respected senior monk gave an explanation regarding this matter. He said, "A blessing's sacredness" is dependent upon "how honest the blessing-giver is towards his virtues." If a blessing-giver is h
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การทำความดีและผลกรรม
… his present actions. As a result, he is wealthier in this lifetime. The Lord Buddha understood the truth about the arising of merit, which can be further broken down into three periods according to the st…
"Bhikkhus, my duties that are of benefit and support to you are now complete. I now wish to remind you that the nature of all living creatures is impermanence and degeneration. Thus, you should contin
The Situation of Abandoned Temples
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The Situation of Abandoned Temples
…e to come to the temple. Therefore, we can conclude that the media created their own version of the truth. While following the news of the Dhammakaya Temple, I also tracked the news concerning the increase…
Of course, people closely followed the news about the Temple. After two years, the outcome was the reverse. Unbelievably, the Temple has survived to this day. Many said that in the same period of time
การอยู่รอดของวัดธรรมกาย
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การอยู่รอดของวัดธรรมกาย
… media. Most people have only known or believed one side of the negative news and ignored the whole truth. How did the Dhammakaya Temple avoid becoming the largest abandoned temple in Thailand? The Temple'…
hoped that future generations would study Buddhism to gain a correct understanding of the realities of life. Thus, if our ancestors were still alive, we can imagine how they would feel about our carel
การให้ทานและการศึกษา
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การให้ทานและการศึกษา
…m carelessly reading negative news If parents do not teach their children to thoroughly analyze the truth in articles about monks, the children may thoughtlessly believe these articles. This could cause th…
should think in this way. As long as the monks do not seriously break the monastic discipline, you should think that you are giving alms to them to replenish their energy for Dhamma study and meditati
บทเรียนจากพระพุทธเจ้า
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บทเรียนจากพระพุทธเจ้า
…e they occur because of their own intellect and competence. However, the Lord Buddha discovered the truth about the unavoidable Law of Cause and Effect, which in Buddhism is the Law of Kamma. He taught tha…
Since we must seek refuge in our own wisdom in times of sorrow and happiness, we can appreciate that the Lord Buddha's supreme wisdom (of how to lead one's life) is indeed comparable to none. His pure