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L Part One Building The Family Foundation

L Part One Building The Family Foundation

…ghly; these responsibilities are based on the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence. The Warm Hearted Family 72 Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love) The Warm Hearted Family 73 Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing L…

The Buddha answered this question in one word: benevolence. That is to say mutual benevolence, the practice the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence (Sangahavatthu), promote happiness in living togethe

…ing became a tradition that Buddhist devotees maintain to this day. Visakha was born into a wealthy family in the county of Magadha, the largest county at that time. Her father was named Tanachai. Once, whe…

Who was Lady Visakha? Visakha, a supreme Upasika [a Buddhist laywoman], was a very important person in Buddhism. She was responsible for the construction of Wat Buppharam, one of many ashrams, a cente

… consequences from kamma are real. This is why we must focus on doing good deeds." The Warm Hearted Family 88 The Birth of a Meritorious Person The Warm Hearted Family 89 The Birth of a Meritorious Person

child to be born to her. When someone from a fortunate realm is ready to be reborn, he will choose the best and most generous mother. Once he enters the womb, he brings good fortune to his mother and

…hild. However, if both parents try to familiarize the baby with good virtues while in the womb, the family will absolutely achieve the birth of a good person. Therefore, in order to teach the baby to be a g…

should continue helping until it is finished. If I gave the money easily to the greedy woman who pretended to be the owner, wouldn't it be simpler to just keep the money? Once we picked it up, we had

…can develop, similar to rich and fertile soil that allows a plant to develop well. The Warm Hearted Family. 102 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous The Warm Hearted Family 103 Raising Children to Be S…

knowledge and moral training from their parents. The parents never leave their children to the mercy of nature. Even though they may not be wealthy, their children have the ability to develop a solid

…hild's repetition of thinking, speaking, and acting. In particular, it is how they The Warm Hearted Family. 104 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous The Warm Hearted Family 105 Raising Children to Be S…

Where do Children's Habits come from? After parents learn that good children must not be troublesome, ignorant, or careless towards others, the question now is, how do parents cultivate these traits i

…the first Precept (No taking or harming of life) then: They might commit a murder. The Warm Hearted Family. 108 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous The Warm Hearted Family 109 Raising Children to Be S…

Raising a Child to be Wholesome Wholesome children have parents who have taught them to have discipline in both their worldly lives and in Dhamma. Discipline is taught in conjunction with their use of

…emselves equal to adults. They will know their place when interacting with others. The Warm Hearted Family. 110 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous The Warm Hearted Family 111 Raising Children to Be S…

2) If they do not keep the second Precept (No stealing) then: They might engage in corruption. 3) If they do not keep the third Precept (No sexual misconduct) then: They might engage in prostitution.

…s because they have these special characteristics: 1) Ability to maintain quality. The Warm Hearted Family 112 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous The Warm Hearted Family 113 Raising Children to Be Sm…

4) Endurance towards the stimulants of defilements (kilesa). Children will not become slaves to alcohol and drugs, sexual attraction, money, praise and other problems. These stimulants cause major soc

… be wasteful with it. This person must first assess if an expense will benefit the The Warm Hearted Family 114 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous The Warm Hearted Family 115 Raising Children to Be Sm…

A person that maintains quality tries his best to deliver the best results in everything he does. He has a clear understanding of what constitutes high quality and how it can be achieved. When he work

…qualities will enable them to rely on themselves and live their lives beautifully. The Warm Hearted Family 116 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous The Warm Hearted Family 117 Raising Children to Be Sm…

group. He knows that a tight budget will lead to lower quality and over budgeting will lead to wastefulness. He must be honest; corruption for his own or his friends' benefit must not occur. Organizat

…o not think that the baby is too young to Killing with Kindness: Parents Defending The Warm Hearted Family. 120 Children When They Misbehave The Warm Hearted Family 121 Killing with Kindness: Parents Defend…

The children will believe that "when you do something good you will receive good in return" is false; and "when you misbehave you à receive good in return" is true. When these children grow up they wi

…ant to have exceptional children, they must educate themselves first before having The Warm Hearted Family. 122 Killing with Kindness: Parents Defending Children When They Misbehave The Warm Hearted Family …

learn. Breast feeding on time is another way to teach a baby about punctuality. Changing the diaper immediately when it is wet can build the habit of cleanliness. Finally, speaking with sweet and gent

… to teach the children. 4. Find good friends with whom the children can associate. The Warm Hearted Family 131 Raising Our Children to be Good People

… to teach the children. 4. Find good friends with whom the children can associate. The Warm Hearted Family Raising Our Children to be Good People

…peak and act virtuously, leading lives with an ingrained sense of right and wrong. The Warm Hearted Family. 134 Raising Our Children to be Good People The Warm Hearted Family 135 Raising Our Children to be …

attend; we just need them to be in a good and positive environment. Being the number one student in class does not mean that student will become the richest person in the world. Knowledge from textboo

…n programs, parents should choose the children's best interests as their priority. The Warm Hearted Family 144 Dear Father, Please Don't Let Me Become Addicted to Television Dear Father, Please Don't Let Me…

watch television whenever they want. They must have a set time for homework, reviewing lessons, reading and helping with household chores. Parents must set proper schedules and never allow the childre

…ood. Moreover, it may reduce and eventually eliminate sex crimes against children. The Warm Hearted Family 154 A Daughter Dresses Too Risque The Warm Hearted Family 155 A Daughter Dresses Too Risque

this problem, we must teach them good behavior and how to dress appropriately while they are still young. "The Lord Buddha said, 'Do not dress inappropriately.' "Dressing inappropriately means dressin

Part Three Harmony in the Family

Part Three Harmony in the Family

…ut which we do not see performed much these days. Traditionally, in front of every The Warm Hearted Family. 174 Remedying the Situation When Neighbors Fight The Warm Hearted Family 175 Remedying the Situati…

If parents behave appropriately toward their neighbors, they will be loved and respected. Then it may be appropriate for them to remind their neighbors of the neighbors' behavior. The Lord Buddha taug