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…ving that if she does not, the sickness will not go away. For others, the circumstances may be even harsher. When the mother experiences morning sickness, she may want to get rid of the unborn child imme…

A senior monk once discussed kamma: "The word kamma is a neutral word that does not imply good or bad since kamma means action. An action always carries a consequence. Why do we feel full? It is becau

…fore entering the marriage. As soon as they realize that the wife is pregnant, they should try even harder to attend to the fetus. They must become even more attentive to their actions, whether it is wal…

Being born a human requires not only the combination of the father's sperm and the mother's egg, but also the spiritual conception of the child in the womb. The tiny being can only begin life in the m

…able, they may commit a crime in the future: 1) If they do not keep the first Precept (No taking or harming of life) then: They might commit a murder. The Warm Hearted Family. 108 Raising Children to Be …

Raising a Child to be Wholesome Wholesome children have parents who have taught them to have discipline in both their worldly lives and in Dhamma. Discipline is taught in conjunction with their use of

…fore entering the marriage. As soon as they realize that the wife is pregnant, they should try even harder to attend to the fetus. They must become even more attentive to their actions, whether it is wal…

The children will believe that "when you do something good you will receive good in return" is false; and "when you misbehave you à receive good in return" is true. When these children grow up they wi

…earn a living, they certainly won't listen to anyone then." "I have a personal example I'd like to share with you. I have two older sisters. When I was young, I would sometimes argue with my sisters. But…

…earn a living, they certainly won't listen to anyone then." "I have a personal example I'd like to share with you. I have two older sisters. When I was young, I wo

…Not knowing the value of having parents, they begin to despise them. They cannot appreciate all the hardships and sacrifices their parents have endured for them. They think that it is their parents' duty…

"War of Existence." Winning is accomplished by having a clear mind before departing. This is absolutely necessary. Therefore, when our relatives are ill, regardless of our closeness to them or the sev

… hurt the parents' feelings with cruel words. Remember that this is tantamount to killing them with harsh words. Even while these children hurt their mothers and fathers with unkind words, The Warm Heart…

Luang Phaw wanted their son to witness what difficulties face children who do not have parents. With his eyes now open, he may change and love and value his parents more from seeing these unfortunate

…ith everyone today. Go ask your friends if they have mounting debt because they've squandered their hard-earned money on ?" To use ones' money on Apāyamukha is like buying problems into your own life. It…

"How much do you spend in a year going out to clubs?" "I guess about two or three times the amount spent on liquor." "Son, you contribute about 2,000 to 2,500 baht every year to making merit, but at t

…s in gambling. 2) We need to prevent our children from becoming gamblers, by explaining to them the harm and danger of gambling. 3) We should not promote or encourage a gambling environment at home, work…

These penniless people, who have lost all their money on gambling, will then turn to the bookies for loans. If they cannot come up with the money to repay their debt, they will resort to criminal acti

…r and loved-ones from becoming involved in gambling. This requires a group effort in explaining the harmful effects of gambling. Let us spread this from one person to the next. With every sound of the wh…

because all of their money is lost. When they win, it is never enough. With each passing day, they can lose their jobs and other important things without even realizing it. 4) Gambling destroys one's

…me. In the attempt to enable humankind to benefit from His Dhamma, the Lord Buddha endured numerous hardships such as extreme physical exertion, and attempts upon His life. However, they had no effect on…

1. The mentor should have an unambiguous biography. There must be proof of his life history; it can not be vague and unreliable. 2. He must be extremely intelligent, exceptionally virtuous, exceedingl

… The failure to meet this objective is like a person who is diligent but ignorant. He can work very hard, but his efforts will achieve little if anything, and sometimes, his efforts can even bring about …

if anyone is there to offer praise. How to Teach Children the Law of Kamma Since the writer's knowledge on this subject is limited, I have researched a book by a respected senior monk, and this is his

… deserves nothing. And let him know that he is lucky to keep his job. And for those who have worked hard but caused more damage than good, they should be told to work less and think more. From what I hav…

more. From what I have told you, you may have to modify your efforts to fit with different circumstances. And soon you will find that the Law of Kamma is absolute, and the right action, thorough and n

What is the Nature of Human Beings? The nature of human beings consists of five characteristics. 1. By nature, humans will not kill. A human who takes life has deviated from the nature…

What is the Nature of Human Beings? The nature of human beings consists of five characteristics. 1. By nature, humans will not kill. A human who takes life has deviated from the nature…

…e taken away from us, we will not be able to survive. Even if we survive, our lives will be full of hardship. Why should we not commit adultery? Because everybody loves their family and friends. Why shou…

How do you keep the Five Precepts intact? When I was a student, I started training myself to observe the Five Precepts. This is how I did it. Before I was ordained, I wore a Buddha image around my nec

… the supervisors at the subordinates, and colleagues amongst each other. The sense of community and harmony deteriorates. The only way to reverse this trend is to teach respect and to see virtues in othe…

Yet there are a number of parents who believe that children should be left free to think and that training them to meditate when they are two or three years old is too restrictive. In this regard, the

…ents to accumulate merit. If we take a good look at people's lives, we will see that we have worked hard for other people, some even harder than we have ever worked for our own parents. If we can give th…

informed of right and wrong. In elevating their moral standards, they will gain more merits. And finally, while at the temple, they will see that other people are observing the precepts and practicing

…rom them at the end. "If you are married or have your own children, there is no need to explain the hardships that will come with your responsibilities. Even by remaining single, having to make a living,…

"Even though we may dislike difficulties and welcome happiness, there is no way to avoid suffering in our lives because life is a mixture of suffering and happiness. Instead, we should prepare for the

…nt to animate or inanimate things, focusing instead on performing good deeds. He is unafraid of any hardships. He realizes that death is creeping ever closer, like a shadow that has followed him from bir…

do not know when we are going to die. We must sooner or later be separated from all loved ones and treasured things. How can people think about death? 1. Thinking about death with the false view: Thin

…rly people have never succeeded in performing good deeds throughout their lives. For instance, they hardly ever offered alms to monks, observed the precepts, meditated, studied Dhamma or chanted. It seem…

grandparents. Moreover, they must extol their grandparents' virtues to their children, both in the grandparents' presence and out of earshot. By setting a good example, children will clearly see and l