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… arise in the future. So, avoid amassing bad kamma, even minor ones. This can only benefit you. The heart the Buddhism is to avoid doing bad deeds, perform only good deeds, and purify the mind until it is …

child to be born to her. When someone from a fortunate realm is ready to be reborn, he will choose the best and most generous mother. Once he enters the womb, he brings good fortune to his mother and

…nd raise him/her to be a good individual until the end. Part Two Raising Your Children DMC The Warm Hearted Family 96 Teaching your Unborn Child

should continue helping until it is finished. If I gave the money easily to the greedy woman who pretended to be the owner, wouldn't it be simpler to just keep the money? Once we picked it up, we had

… of families, children receive very little moral training. Some children come from wealthy The Warm Hearted Family 101 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous.

Four Kinds of Families To raise children to be smart and virtuous, parents must continuously adhere to these two guidelines. 1. Parents must have the knowledge necessary to raise children to be smart

…e if parents take their children's side when they have misbehaved or done something wrong. The Warm Hearted Family 119 Killing with Kindness: Parents Defending Children When They Misbehave

Chapter 8 Killing with Kindness: Parents Defending Children When They Misbehave "A parent's love can harm children." This sentence may go against the feelings of parents, but in reality there are a lo

…their children to love merit and be fearful of sin. This can be accomplished by reading to The Warm Hearted Family 127 The Four Important Roles Parents Must Play in Raising Good Children

In addition to being good parents and performing parental duties, they should also assume the following roles: 1. The role of a teacher. Parents must teach children to discern what is right and wrong,

… let children think that money is easy to earn. They must learn that money doesn't grow on The Warm Hearted Family 137 Teaching Children Frugality to Ensure The Family's Future

Chapter 11 Teaching Children Frugality to Ensure the Family's Future Children's future financial security can be measured by their frugality and parents can cultivate good economic sense in their chil

…on time must not interfere with school and household chores. Parents must not let children The Warm Hearted Family 143 Dear Father, Please Don't Let Me Become Addicted to Television

C It is often too late when parents finally realize that this behavior stems from letting their children watch inappropriate television programs when they are not yet mature enough to discern right fr

…o when it is time to use the internet, study, and chant and pay homage to the Lord Buddha. The Warm Hearted Family 147 Children Who Are Addicted to the Internet

to the Internet We live in the era of the information super highway. Children are addicted not only to television, videos and cell phones, but also to the internet. We must accept the fact that these

…me the parents and teachers who encouraged this behavior. Therefore, if we want to correct The Warm Hearted Family 153 A Daughter Dresses Too Risque

"If we look at the problem clearly, we will discover that its origins took root even before these children became teenagers and started to dress provocatively. We can trace it back to when these child

…he primary cause of a family's rapid deterioration is the failure to have dinner together. The Warm Hearted Family 159 Creating Harmony in the Family

Chapter 15 Creating Harmony in the Family Children of broken families often display certain characteristics such as disobedience and negative attitudes. Obviously, that is not something that is desira

…y asked herself, "Is it too late for them to reconcile?" Her parents had already given up. The Warm Hearted Family 165 What should Parents Do When Their Children Do Not Get Along?

When Their Children Do Not Get Along? Here is a true story for parents who have not yet begun creating harmony in their families. There was once a family with three daughters. The oldest daughter was

…ent with kind words. Even if we do not have anything to say, we can at least give a smile. The Warm Hearted Family 173 Remedying the Situation When Neighbors Fight.

2. Fight with kindness. If the parents are younger than the neighbors, they should try to be friendlier. The neighbors may become more aware and argue more quietly. However, if the parents are older,

…d respect of others in several ways. The most effective way is by giving. When you give with a pure heart, people will love and look upon you with dignity. The following method has been used in the past wi…

If parents behave appropriately toward their neighbors, they will be loved and respected. Then it may be appropriate for them to remind their neighbors of the neighbors' behavior. The Lord Buddha taug

…n unhappy or unfortunate realm. After departing from this world, one will reborn an animal The Warm Hearted Family 179 Teach Children to Care for Critically Ill Relatives

How should we care for our loved ones when they become critically ill? There are two components to caring for the ill: 1. Caring for them physically We must find the best doctors who can provide treat

… they can help us win the "War of Existence." Chapter 19 The Unconditional Love of Parents The Warm Hearted Family. 182 Teach Children to Care for Critically Relatives In the economically driven world in w…

… they can help us win the "War of Existence." Chapter 19 The Unconditional Love of Parents The Warm Hearted Family. Teach Childre

…merit will allow him to realize his own good fortune. It might even help turn him around." The Warm Hearted Family 185 The Unconditional Love of Parents

If their parents are not wealthy enough to satisfy their whims, they disparage them as being lazy. They complain about being embarrassed by their parents' thriftiness. Sometimes, they bully their pare

…new clothes got ripped and torn and nobody got to wear them. What we witnessed made us feel sad and heartbroken. These children had a different perspective on life than us. When we were young, we wanted to…

Luang Phaw wanted their son to witness what difficulties face children who do not have parents. With his eyes now open, he may change and love and value his parents more from seeing these unfortunate

…ntinue on the Roads to Ruin, or Apayamukha, these children will destroy their own futures. The Warm Hearted Family 191 Children Who Are Addicted to Apayamukha (the Roads to Ruin)

Their love for their children makes parents work hard to earn money, so that they can provide comforts like an education, toys, and clothes for their children, and also so that their children will not

…d assets to them. Give them their inheritance in order for them to start their own legacy. The Warm Hearted Family 193 Children Who Are Addicted to Apayamukha (the Roads to Ruin)

1. Teach your children. In a household where children have not developed bad behavior, then they should be taught about right and wrong and how to demonstrate self-discipline. 2. Address the problem i

…n adulterous husband: There are two main factors that can lead a man to become adulterous. The Warm Hearted Family 201 The Womanizing and Alcoholic Husband

for some length of time, the initial infatuation dissipated and they saw their husbands and wives sometimes at their worse behavior. Whether this other side of him or her leads to small or large confl