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…andparents referred only to endurance and gentleness from Buddhist teachings as the main virtues to help refine the mind. It is also a way to condense Dhamma for Laypersons to only aspects of mind regulat…

words, it is the ability to have endurance for others' weaknesses. Once the couple is married and begins living together, there will be many responsibilities one must undertake for one's spouse and on

…tices these ten suggestions is said to have "The Mother of Great Kindness within the House." Please help lessen her burdens and take good care of her for the peace and happiness of the children and family…

with them. In that situation, angry words will only make the situation worse. It is better to wait when they are no longer angry before gently explaining the situation. 10. Pay homage to the angels. W

… be a foundation for their children's good character. As the children grow up, this foundation will help them integrate good behavior into their natural habits. This will automatically steer them away fro…

In addition to being good parents and performing parental duties, they should also assume the following roles: 1. The role of a teacher. Parents must teach children to discern what is right and wrong,

…our love for your children incorrectly by committing perjury. Parents can do as much as they can to help, but do not violate the law of the country. 4. The role of an Arahant. Parents must practice as hig…

them the Jataka (stories of the past lives of the Lord Buddha), making sure they do their chanting before bed, and teaching them how to offer Dana (generosity) through methods such as offering alms to

…te their own toys to play with or to assemble their toy parts together, then children will learn to help themselves and they will be proud of their successes, as they will have a higher mental acuity. Fur…

trees, and every single dollar is hard-earned by their parents. Children will then know the value of money and will use it wisely. 2. Teach children not to spend lavishly. Please don't buy anything lu

…areer and learn responsibility. 4) When the time comes for their children to select a life partner, help them with the process. Explain to them what they need to do to prepare for family life and the resp…

1. Teach your children. In a household where children have not developed bad behavior, then they should be taught about right and wrong and how to demonstrate self-discipline. 2. Address the problem i

…es alcohol. In fact, there are many people who engage in more worthy pursuits, like volunteering to help the homeless or reading to the blind. It is certainly much more fulfilling than going out every nig…

make sound judgments whether they should or should not do something. 2. Keeping your children away from Apayamukha. In the event where the children are already addicted to Apāyamukha, the only way to

…since money is a delicate subject to raise with anyone. Although concerned, they do not know how to help. The Warm Hearted Family. 204 The Womanizing and Alcoholic Husband The Warm Hearted Family 205 The …

Single women please keep in mind that men who are faithful and who abstain from alcohol are hard to find. Therefore, you are better off being single. It is a wiser choice. According to the Law of Kamm

… the consequence of bad actions. This is the Law of Kamma. And in times of trouble, we can look for help, not in science, not in economics, and not in politics, but from good kamma to aid us. The Warm Hea…

the same, the patient would have died. This should prove that the physical heart and the ethereal heart are two different things. In the Tripitaka, the Lord Buddha spoke of a number of subjects that w

…f our lives, no matter how educated we are or how much money we have, only our spiritual merits can help us. Merit is not for sale. If you want it, you will have to acquire it yourself through your own ac…

3. Conscientious donor. The donor should at least abide by the Five Precepts. And it is important that he should be joyful before, during and after the offering, and not feel regret about it. 4. Virtu

…g their children to abide by the Five Precepts is the utmost important responsibility of parents to help counteract social deterioration. However, before they are capable of doing this, they must know: 1.…

can we expect the younger generation to see the importance of observing the precepts? This unfortunate situation has led more people to disregard the precepts until ignorance has become the norm. And

… to be good person, you have to abide by the Five Precepts. The writer hopes that this account will help parents to teach their children to observe the Five Precepts, so that they grow up to be good peopl…

How do you keep the Five Precepts intact? When I was a student, I started training myself to observe the Five Precepts. This is how I did it. Before I was ordained, I wore a Buddha image around my nec

…nswer is....very little. I realized right there that I must not do anything to hurt them if I could help it. These two close shaves played a major part in spurring me to ordain. I wanted my mother and gra…

that one can do whenever one wants to. Ordination requires merits accumulated from one's past life, as well as meeting all the qualifications set out in the discipline section of the Tripitaka. Unfort

…, persuading them to listen to spiritual teachings and teaching them how to meditate. All these can help keep them on the path to Nibbana. "Even when your parents have passed away, your duty as a grateful…

parents, we are overwhelmingly in debt to them. 2. Parents always forgive us without being resentful. The scolding and punishments they may have given us for doing unacceptable things are out of their

…d gaped at him in fear, as if she was dying in front of him. "Venerable Angulimala really wanted to help her, but what he could do about it? In the end, he gave her a blessing based on his honesty towards…

A respected senior monk gave an explanation regarding this matter. He said, "A blessing's sacredness" is dependent upon "how honest the blessing-giver is towards his virtues." If a blessing-giver is h

…. When instilled with the teachings of the Lord Buddha, people will develop faith and be willing to help the monks and novices at the temple. They will then be able think of their contributions to the tem…

For example, if there were statements about constructing a Dhamma Hall or a monk's shelter soon, then this must happen. In short, the temple must produce results as soon as it can. Thus, the first sac

…ple is that Buddhist males of retirement age should think about ordaining as monks so that they can help revive those abandoned temples. They can apply their life experiences and network to benefit Buddhi…

minds only when they practice meditation until their minds reach a profound level of peacefulness and becomes so bright that they are able to see their minds through the brightness. Most people in thi

… The accused person should continue to perform good deeds as best as he can. Strict discipline will help to protect him and in the end, he will defeat the situation. The Warm Hearted Family. 396 The Lord …

3) When the Lord Buddha was confronted by a furious elephant (similar to a frantic person), His solution was to spread loving kindness. In short, when people receive and are moved by loving kindness,

…ficult, the Lord Buddha once gave the following analogy: The number of times He donated His eyes to help others in order to become enlightened is greater than all the stars in the sky. To devote one's ent…

examine this so that we will not miss the opportunity to do so. We should clearly understand the importance of contributing a Buddha image so that we do not obstruct our grandparents when they wish to