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…ur own negative behaviors. Defilements are a dangerous disease of our mind that come attached to us since birth. As the disease advances, it The Warm Hearted Family 30 The Heart of the Family The Warm He…

there is something that still displeases us. When we are displeased with ourselves, they are considered weaknesses that have turned into bad habits. And we will notice that we have overlooked so many

…We have knowledge, ability, and goodness, which we developed from training ourselves all our lives. Since we must die, when we become elderly, there must be someone to look after us. If we are to marry a…

own personal desires, and the husband and wife do not combine their incomes from the beginning, that means that one is preparing go one's separate way from the start because neither person is thinking

… beauty of a person has four levels, but the most difficult level to observe is the Beauty of Mind, since it is all about the morality that a person possesses. To discover that, we need to rely on person…

that warn, "Sweet words are more devastating" or "Sweet beginning, bitter ending" or "Sweet mouth, sour bottom." 4th Level: Beauty of Mind - This is the beauty of the virtue within a person, which can

3) They must have a life teacher or a good counselor advising them on marriage and relationships. Otherwise, it is possible that they will not be able to mainta…

3) They must have a life teacher or a good counselor advising them on marriage and relationships. Otherwise, it is possible that they will not be able to mainta…

…e Frightened Mind is fear and anxiety of loss or discontentment, which are: 1) Loss of Fortune is losing what one already possesses, such as loss of money, a house, a child or a spouse. 2) Loss of Presti…

Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in this world, we are subject to both gratification and disappointment; it is a matter o

…hat we accumulate today will follow us and its consequences will arise in the future. So, avoid amassing bad kamma, even minor ones. This can only benefit you. The heart the Buddhism is to avoid doing ba…

child to be born to her. When someone from a fortunate realm is ready to be reborn, he will choose the best and most generous mother. Once he enters the womb, he brings good fortune to his mother and

… habits should be taught early. Do not neglect these lessons or assume that they are insignificant. Since parents are their children's first teachers, they must instill what is right in their children so…

In addition to being good parents and performing parental duties, they should also assume the following roles: 1. The role of a teacher. Parents must teach children to discern what is right and wrong,

… that, if they do not spend enough time with their children, the children can develop poor judgment since most of the programs they watch revolve around the theme of sex. Children exposed to these progra…

C It is often too late when parents finally realize that this behavior stems from letting their children watch inappropriate television programs when they are not yet mature enough to discern right fr

…ot let them sleep late. If the children sleep late, they will not want to get up in the morning, causing parents to have to reprimand them. This can result in exchanges of harsh words, early in the morni…

…ot let them sleep late. If the children sleep late, they will not want to get up in the morning, causing parents to have to reprimand them. This can result in exchanges of harsh words, early in the morni…

…e actual problem. The anger may still linger. If similar incidents occur regularly, parents could misinterpret such situations and blame the misunderstood child. The child may become jealous of his sibli…

In a large family, members who do not eat dinner together have even more disagreements. Take for an example, if one day a mother cooks a very delicious meal that everyone enjoys, everyone will eat mor

…hips and sacrifices their parents have endured for them. They think that it is their parents' duty, since they brought them into the world, to raise and give them everything they desire. In the end, it i…

"War of Existence." Winning is accomplished by having a clear mind before departing. This is absolutely necessary. Therefore, when our relatives are ill, regardless of our closeness to them or the sev

… If we say no to him, he curses us. I don't know what to do with him anymore." Luang Phaw advised, "Since your son has never attended the temple, I am unable to advise too much. If I tell him to come lis…

If their parents are not wealthy enough to satisfy their whims, they disparage them as being lazy. They complain about being embarrassed by their parents' thriftiness. Sometimes, they bully their pare

…ry difficult to remedy, so a spouse can only endure and consider it the sad consequence of not assessing people well and for choosing someone like that as a husband. You can only control your own behavio…

1) A husband strays because he lacks something from his wife Although this is a very difficult task, a wife needs to understand the shortcomings she may have which influenced her husband to cheat. Sea

Single women please keep in mind that men who are faithful and who abstain from alcohol are hard to fin…

Single women please keep in mind that men who are faithful and who abstain from alcohol are hard to fin…

…probably respond by telling you that you should not be telling him this, and that he has raised you since you were little, when your feet were as small as seashells. Luang Phaw went through this too. Eve…

There was a student who approached Luang Phaw, seeking advice in helping his father to quit drinking, because every time his father was drunk he became violent and would yell at the neighbors. This ma

…oducts of their kamma. 3. Hell and heaven do exist. Hell is punishment for those who have committed sinful deeds, and heaven is the home to those who have performed virtuous deeds. "And if we look closel…

…oducts of their kamma. 3. Hell and heaven do exist. Hell is punishment for those who have committed sinful deeds, and heaven is the home to those who have performed virtuous deeds. "And if we look closel…

…e water is dumped on the ground next to the jar, the tree benefits. It will grow faster than others since it happens to be near the water source. It is the same when we carry out good deeds. If the local…

After three or four months, although there is still no banana to consume, there will be banana leaves that we can use for wrapping. After eight or nine months, there is yet no banana to eat, but there

…each instance. The more virtuous the recipient, the more merit as a result. And if the recipient is single-mindedly striving toward enlightenment, the benefit to the generous person will be immense and i…

3. Conscientious donor. The donor should at least abide by the Five Precepts. And it is important that he should be joyful before, during and after the offering, and not feel regret about it. 4. Virtu

…nature, humans will not lie. People should always speak the truth. They should always be honest and sincere to one another. Hence the fourth Precept reminds us not to lie. 5. By nature, humans will not c…

What is the Nature of Human Beings? The nature of human beings consists of five characteristics. 1. By nature, humans will not kill. A human who takes life has deviated from the nature of humankind. H

…urity to their spouses. 4. And those who do not lie have already earned the notable merit of giving sincerity. So when we are able to abide by the first Four Precepts, we are earning significant merit of…

The children The senior monk The children The senior monk Yes, he will. And have you ever lied to him? : Yes, I have. Remember this, if you lie to somebody, they will feel less love for you each time,