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Promoting Harmony in Families and Dealing with Neighbor Conflicts
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Promoting Harmony in Families and Dealing with Neighbor Conflicts
However, I recommend following the first two pieces of advice first: Your parents should reduce their allowances and have them help each other at tasks. Children…
This text discusses effective parenting advice that emphasizes reducing allowances for children, encouraging them to help each other with chores, …
The Consequences of Heedlessness and the Path to Salvation
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The Consequences of Heedlessness and the Path to Salvation
so, even so, they who neglect the advice of the Buddhas, both Brethren and Sisters, lay Brethren and lay Sisters, come to great misery in th…
…ikened to a bird-horse that saves merchants, illustrating the salvation that comes from heeding his advice. Ultimately, the narrative culminates in the enlightenment of the speaker and the collective progre…
Maintaining Harmony in Marriage
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Maintaining Harmony in Marriage
…nd frustrations on us by talking about the problems. Listen to each other without the need to offer advice or judgment, or taking on the other's problems as our own. As the saying goes, when a hot iron is p…
…n to each other's stress without judgment and provide the support needed, whether through sympathy, advice, or humor. This approach promotes a loving and harmonious married life. For more relationship tips,…
Timeless Advice for Daughter-in-Laws from Visakha
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Timeless Advice for Daughter-in-Laws from Visakha
…er future husband and his family. On the day that she moved out, Dhananjaya gave Visakha a ten-fold advice on how to be a good daughter-in-law. This 2,500 year-old advice is still practiced and is applicabl…
Visakha, the daughter of millionaire Dhananjaya, received valuable ten-fold advice before her marriage on being a good daughter-in-law. This ancient wisdom emphasizes maintaining fam…
Helping a Father Quit Drinking
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Helping a Father Quit Drinking
There was a student who approached Luang Phaw, seeking advice in helping his father to quit drinking, because every time his father was drunk he became violent a…
In this narrative, a student seeks advice from Luang Phaw to help his father quit drinking due to violent behavior caused by alcohol. The fat…
Practicing the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence
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Practicing the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence
…be willing to lend a hand to help. 2. Pleasant speech (Piyavāca) One should be careful when giving advice, being too candid can hurt the other party’s ego and give rise to resentment. The rule of thumb is …
…support fosters a positive atmosphere. 2. Pleasant Speech (Piyavāca) – kind words strengthen bonds; advice must be gentle. 3. Mutual Benefit (Athacarīya) – knowledge of Dhamma aids conflict resolution. 4. R…
The Role of Garudhamma in Buddhist Nuns' Conduct
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The Role of Garudhamma in Buddhist Nuns' Conduct
a misplaced doubt about the rule that a nun must be given advice (ovāda) and pointed out her bad behaviors (pavāraṇā) by a monk. Based on the evidence in the Pāli c…
…g their importance as norms rather than customs. It discusses the issues raised by a monk regarding advice to nuns and their behaviors, presents a clear definition of garudhamma based on Pāli texts, and ref…
The Impact of Upbringing on Character Development
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The Impact of Upbringing on Character Development
…that the friend was also not an honest and good person with whom to associate and that his father's advice, although not fully understood or appreciated at the time, was of great benefit to him in choosing …
This narrative illustrates the importance of a good upbringing as exemplified by Luang Por’s life. His father’s strict but wise teachings shaped his character, guiding him in choosing friends and reso
The Perils of Ignoring Advice in the Jungle
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The Perils of Ignoring Advice in the Jungle
" Yes indeed, Sir, there has been a great rain in the jungle just in front, the roads are well watered, there is much grass and wood and water. Throw away the grass and wood and water, Sir, you have a
A caravan leader is advised to discard grass, wood, and water for a quicker journey. Following this advice leads to disaster, as they find no essential resources at their camps. The yakkha consumes the cara…
Advancements in Buddhist Studies through Collaboration
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Advancements in Buddhist Studies through Collaboration
…nd cooperation with the academic/ research community. I look forward to receive your kind valuable advice and co-operation for further improvement and mutual academic advancement. Phrakrupaldnayokwarawat …
…ation and knowledge sharing. The director, Phrakrupaldnayokwarawat, expresses eagerness for further advice and collaboration for mutual advancement.
Caring for a Dying Parent: A Buddhist Perspective
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Caring for a Dying Parent: A Buddhist Perspective
… unbearable for him and you tell him to take refuge in the Triple Gem, he may consider taking your advice. "Another thing you can do is to prepare alms food (rice, fruit or flower) for him to offer to th…
The passage highlights the significance of remaining close to a dying parent, suggesting actions like giving Dhamma talks, offering alms, and encouraging chanting to alleviate suffering. It emphasizes
The Last Moment of a Father’s Life
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The Last Moment of a Father’s Life
Chapter 37 The Last Moment of a Father’s Life One day, a lady came to seek advice from a respected senior monk about how to care for her dying father; Buddhists consider this an imp…
… the importance of caring for dying parents in Buddhism, shared through a lady's experience seeking advice from a senior monk. Her father's absence and the moral lessons highlight the significance of gratit…
Understanding the Law of Kamma and Workplace Promotion Criteria
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Understanding the Law of Kamma and Workplace Promotion Criteria
…ust be some clear-cut guidelines for this kind of situation. The banker asked for the senior monk’s advice when he was questioned by the board. The senior monk suggested that he should explain himself as fo…
…guidelines and objectives are crucial in addressing promotions to avoid discontent. A senior monk's advice emphasizes the importance of aligning effort with objectives for success. Employees who meet all cr…
Teaching Children Responsibility
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Teaching Children Responsibility
However, I recommend following the first two pieces of advice first: Your parents should reduce their allowances and have them help each other at tasks. Children…
The text offers advice on teaching children responsibility by encouraging them to manage their own chores and collaborate …
Teaching Children Decision-Making Skills Through House Rules
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Teaching Children Decision-Making Skills Through House Rules
…y perform in the future. --- A government officer once came to a venerable monk at the temple for advice about a problem regarding the way teenagers dress these days. The officer felt that teenage girls …
…ed on principles and reasoning. The narrative includes a situation where a government officer seeks advice from a monk about teenagers' provocative dressing, highlighting the role of parental neglect and la…
Fortifying Mental Health
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Fortifying Mental Health
…stable mind. Whenever you feel discouraged, weary and hopeless from the crushing waves of life, the advice and encouragement in this book can be your lighthouse. Its recommendations can relieve your mental …
This book compiles insightful advice from The Most Venerable Dhammajayo Bhikkhu aimed at helping individuals reinforce their mental resi…
The Last Moments of Life: A Daughter's Duty
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The Last Moments of Life: A Daughter's Duty
…s unbearable for him and you tell him to take refuge in the Triple Gem, he may consider taking your advice. "Another thing you can do is to prepare alms food (rice, fruit or flower) for him to offer to the …
In the final moments of a father's life, a daughter is encouraged to stay close and offer Dhamma talks, flowers, and support. She should encourage daily prayer, even while lying down, and prepare alms
Advice on Helping a Father Overcome Alcoholism
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Advice on Helping a Father Overcome Alcoholism
There was a student who approached Luang Phaw, seeking advice in helping his father to quit drinking, because every time his father was drunk he became violent a…
A student seeks counsel from Luang Phaw to help his father quit drinking, as his father's violent behavior affects their family and reputation. Luang Phaw shares his experience with addiction in famil
King Pasantikosol and Lady Visakha's Wisdom
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King Pasantikosol and Lady Visakha's Wisdom
… Visakha was to be married to the son of another family in Kosol. Her father gave her the following advice. 1. Do not let the internal fire become external. Do not reveal any family problems for the people …
…ian history. Lady Visakha, a key figure from a wealthy family in Magadha, received valuable wedding advice from her father, emphasizing the importance of family integrity, generosity, respect, and proper co…
A Successful Marriage
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A Successful Marriage
… should do for a wife. There are lot more tactics which can not all be explained here. Although the advice here may be quite a good guideline for leading a married life, sometimes it does not work for some …
…l die. It emphasizes the importance of care, sharing, and communication between spouses. While this advice offers a foundation for a healthy partnership, individual circumstances may vary, sometimes influen…