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However, I recommend following the first two pieces of advice first: Your parents should reduce their allowances and have them help each other at tasks. Children won't allow others to take advantage of them. Typically, they won't stay angry at each other for a long period of time. When their pockets are empty, they will have to help each other with work. If you have hired a maid, she can do the main household chores. However, children should do their own personal chores. They should be responsible for the same assigned tasks. This will give the siblings a chance to openly discuss the way to complete their tasks. This technique must be used when the children are still young. If parents keep spoiling their children, they will grow up to be awful people." After listening to the respected senior monk's advice, the oldest sister's face brightened up with hope and a smile. She took the advice home to bring her family back together. Parents who read this story should instill a feeling of unity in your children by teaching them seniority. When they grow up, they will love and look after each other. If they feel down or fall on rough times, their siblings will not let them suffer. With these good intentions toward each other, parents can be free from worry. Chapter 17 Remedying the Situation When Neighbors Fight A good environment promotes good habits in children. But if our neighbors argue noisily everyday while using profanity, how can parents remedy this situation? If our children continue to hear these arguments, they could be negatively impacted. This may lead our children to speak impolitely, offensively, and even be rejected by society. There are two ways to address this situation. 1. Move away. If parents are able, they should move away; but if they cannot, they must try to endure it. Parents can set good examples for their children by speaking politely with their neighbors. If parents take drastic actions, it may lead to a quarrel or personal injury. Such behavior will only create more problems. What should Parent D The Warm Hearted Family 170 The Warm Hearted Family 171 Remedying the Situation When Neighbors Fight When Their Child Do Not Gon