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The Path of Self-Training and Endurance
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The Path of Self-Training and Endurance
Those who have full knowledge, ability and goodness must follow only this path in order to train themselves to keep up with the world and its people, and not surrender to defilements. Surely, if you
…hasizes the importance of endurance in dealing with natural hardships, physical suffering, and interpersonal conflicts. The ability to control oneself is vital in fostering a strong family foundation and pers…
Dhamma for Laypersons and the Four Levels of Beauty
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Dhamma for Laypersons and the Four Levels of Beauty
A person who has the Dhamma for Laypersons (Gharāvās-dhamma) must display four regular habits: 1. Habit of Responsibility – Whatever the task at hand, he must do it to the best of his ability, in t
…ily bonds and societal contributions. Such wisdom helps navigate relationships with a focus on both personal growth and the importance of a nurturing family environment. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.
Metaphors for Mind Purification
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Metaphors for Mind Purification
gentleness in their minds. So they converted these virtues into metaphors for practical purposes, which included the following four magic forms of conduct: Magic Form of Conduct #1: Eyes like the kno
… success and stability in life's endeavors. The bamboo ladder also symbolizes careful steps towards personal growth, as one climbs towards goals, reflecting a balance of effort and mindfulness.
Mastering the Art of Handling Gossip and Compliments
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Mastering the Art of Handling Gossip and Compliments
When some people learn they are being gossiped about, they become so furious that they could kill the person who started the rumor. But if we know how to turn our ears into a wok handles, those words
…a calm composure that helps avoid conflicts and challenges in life. This approach not only enhances personal tranquility but also strengthens relationships, particularly in preventing misunderstandings and fo…
The Value of Honest Work
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The Value of Honest Work
honest with every job they did throughout their lives, they could tell their stories proudly: “Ever since we were young, when we had to get a job, even if it was to empty or to clean the toilets, we
…t, fostering respect and pride from family members. Good deeds performed without conditions lead to personal peace and honor in relationships, while enduring obstacles in good practices reflects true resilien…
Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love)
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Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love)
Chapter 3 **Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love)** In the book *Thirty-eight Universal Steps to Eternal Happiness*, compiled for the summer program for ordained monks by the *Venerable Teacher Monk S
…erstand that their happiness together can vary greatly and is influenced by many factors, including personal beliefs and perspectives. It suggests that cherishing love is fundamental to maintaining a happy an…
Lady Visakha: A Pioneering Upasika in Buddhism
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Lady Visakha: A Pioneering Upasika in Buddhism
…named Tanachai. Once, when his county was in an economic crisis, King Pasantikosol of Kosol made a personal request to King Pimpisarn of Magadha that Tanachai become the minister of finance for his county. K…
Lady Visakha was a prominent Upasika who played a vital role in Buddhism. She built Wat Buppharam in Savatthi, contributing an extraordinary fortune. She initiated the tradition of offering robes for
Wisdom for Marriage: Ten Suggestions from a Father to His Daughter
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Wisdom for Marriage: Ten Suggestions from a Father to His Daughter
When they reached Magadha, which was 112 kilometers from the capital of Kosol, Tanachai asked King Pasantikosol, "The city is small and I have a large number of retinue with me. It will be inconvenien
…l insights from the era of the Lord Buddha, and offer a glimpse into the significance of kinship in personal relationships. For more historical insights, visit dmc.tv.
Guiding Children Towards a Positive Future
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Guiding Children Towards a Positive Future
…ents hope for their children to have a bright future, and find success in both the professional and personal realms, five criteria need to be met: 1) Teach their children to refrain from bad deeds. 2) Teach …
This content discusses the crucial role of parents in guiding their children to develop good behavior and self-discipline. It emphasizes the immediate need to address any self-destructive behaviors. F
Transforming Habits: Lessons in Merit and Money Management
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Transforming Habits: Lessons in Merit and Money Management
We have learned about the roads leading to ruin numerous times, but we have never implemented the principles to avoid them into our daily lives. When we suffer, we blame society or someone else. Luan
…nagement. Through this journey, Luang Phaw learned the importance of mindful decisions in achieving personal peace and financial stability. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.
The Cost of Vices and the Path to Redemption
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The Cost of Vices and the Path to Redemption
"How much do you spend in a year going out to clubs?" "I guess about two or three times the amount spent on liquor." "Son, you contribute about 2,000 to 2,500 baht every year to making merit, but
…e the importance of making merit in life. Ultimately, it underlines that self-help is essential for personal growth and well-being. Avoiding paths that lead to ruin can attract better company and provide fina…
Helping a Father Quit Drinking
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Helping a Father Quit Drinking
There was a student who approached Luang Phaw, seeking advice in helping his father to quit drinking, because every time his father was drunk he became violent and would yell at the neighbors. This ma
…eflecting on his own struggles with family addiction. He advises patience and perseverance, sharing personal experiences to highlight the complexities of confronting a loved one’s addiction. The student is en…
Helping a Parent Overcome Alcoholism
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Helping a Parent Overcome Alcoholism
…. In order to avoid embarrassment, we need to use wisdom to find a way that is appropriate to their personality. We must persevere so that we can lead them away from the unfortunate realms (Abhayabhum).
In this personal narrative, the author reflects on their father's battle with alcoholism as he aged. Wanting to help…
Understanding Buddhism and Dhamma for Laypersons
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Understanding Buddhism and Dhamma for Laypersons
This question has prompted me to study Buddhism seriously, which has given me an understanding of life: 1. Death is not the end. We still have to be reborn indefinitely, as long as we have not rid o
…ding truthfulness, which emphasizes honesty, accountability, and moral living. The text serves as a personal reflection on the importance of ethical behavior in daily life, inspired by Buddhist teachings.
The Four Virtues of Self-Improvement
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The Four Virtues of Self-Improvement
2. Self-improvement (Dama) “The second virtue is to always improve oneself. I kept improving myself professionally. From an ignorant person, I kept advancing myself until I was able to be a good provi
This text discusses the four virtues that foster personal development. The first virtue emphasizes continuous self-improvement to advance one's career and re…
Understanding the Fourth and Fifth Precepts of Buddhism
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Understanding the Fourth and Fifth Precepts of Buddhism
Yes, he will. And have you ever lied to him? Remember this, if you lie to somebody, they will feel less love for you each time, and vice versa. No one likes dishonesty, so you should not lie to anyo
…violence, and respect for property and relationships. Understanding these precepts not only fosters personal growth but also nurtures a harmonious community. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.
Observing the Five Precepts: A Path to Goodness
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Observing the Five Precepts: A Path to Goodness
How do you keep the Five Precepts intact? Conclusion When I was a student, I started training myself to observe Let
The text discusses the importance of the Five Precepts in Buddhism and shares a personal journey of learning to observe them. The author recounts a practice from their student days of maki…
The Joy of Ordination and Gratitude to Parents
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The Joy of Ordination and Gratitude to Parents
vacation. The poster shows a mother about sixty years old. She is holding a small lei in her hands; her face is full of joy. Her son, attired in white novice robes, is bowing low at her feet showing d
… emphasizing the importance of ordaining while one's mother is alive, as a symbol of gratitude. The personal experience of the writer showcases the joy of ordination, demonstrating that true happiness can be …
The Importance of Ordination Amidst Life's Uncertainties
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The Importance of Ordination Amidst Life's Uncertainties
I have seen parents make funeral arrangements for their children, grandparents for their grandchildren. It should not be this way, and I certainly did not want this to happen to me. But since life is
…s the unexpected nature of life, highlighting the author's struggle to prioritize ordination amidst personal and familial obligations. With deteriorating health in family members, the urgency of ordination be…
The Power of Austerity in Buddhism
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The Power of Austerity in Buddhism
"In order to differentiate between need and want, our ancestors trained themselves by practicing austerity on every Buddhist Holy Day. Many teaching monks say that if a person wants to experience such
…ve effect on society, leading to a more mindful and prosperous nation. The practice not only brings personal peace but also fosters a community of development and merit. Austerity becomes a foundation for a v…