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การจัดการกับคำพูดที่ไม่ดี
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การจัดการกับคำพูดที่ไม่ดี
…return to the person who started it, because they are the first person to hear their own words. Our grandparents also remind us that, even if we do not get angry over these ill words, we should not immediately th…
…return to the person who started it, because they are the first person to hear their own words. Our grandparents also remind us that, even if we do not get angry over these ill words, we should not immediately th…
Parents, Worthy of Our Reverence
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Parents, Worthy of Our Reverence
…as best as we can. From the aforementioned scenario, if we think about becoming old or being future grandparents, of course, we will become senile and feeble. We may depend on our children for our every movement,…
In Buddhist teachings, parents are revered as Arahantas in the family. They are the first teachers to their children. There is a Thai saying that at the parents' feet are gateways to the heavenly real
การสร้างสิ่งที่ดีที่สุดในตัวเอง
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การสร้างสิ่งที่ดีที่สุดในตัวเอง
…e entire family had to get up and contribute. When the monks came to receive the alms offering, the grandparents would lead the children to put the meal offering into the monks' alms-bowls. After the offering, th…
On the contrary, those who had once been selfish, angry, or jealous, and then reversed their conduct by improving themselves, will possess positive thoughts, speech, and actions. When good deeds are a
การกำจัดความโลภและความขัดแย้งในครอบครัว
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การกำจัดความโลภและความขัดแย้งในครอบครัว
… best can be created in oneself. 2) Eliminating anger by observing the precepts regularly. When the grandparents would wake at dawn, prior to preparing the alms meal, it would be their morning routine to gather t…
… best can be created in oneself. 2) Eliminating anger by observing the precepts regularly. When the grandparents would wake at dawn, prior to pre
Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Factors for Success
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Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Factors for Success
… Of course those who are able to control their emotions must have had training before marrying. Our grandparents encountered these issues throughout their lives. They established the following tenets regarding a …
This text discusses the importance of emotional regulation in marriage and the need for couples to prepare before their union. It outlines four essential factors for a successful marriage, including s
The Art of Mindful Observation
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The Art of Mindful Observation
…positive, improving the mind which will extend to others. Anyone who can restrain their eyes as our grandparents advised will see the world optimistically, will not have the pessimistic way of finding faults in o…
In this insightful guide, the text emphasizes the importance of training our eyes and ears to focus on positivity and wisdom. It advocates not to dwell on others' faults or listen to gossip, which can
Understanding the Eight Worldly Conditions
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Understanding the Eight Worldly Conditions
Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in t…
This text delves into the wisdom imparted by grandparents and the Buddha regarding the Eight Worldly Conditions, which influence human emotions of gratificat…
The Wisdom of Ancestral Teachings on Family Values
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The Wisdom of Ancestral Teachings on Family Values
… best can be created in oneself. 2) Eliminating anger by observing the precepts regularly. When the grandparents would wake at dawn, prior to preparing the alms meal, it would be their morning routine to gather t…
This text discusses the impact of family members fighting over property and money, highlighting how such conflicts lead to negative outcomes. Our ancestors recognized this issue and encouraged giving
The Importance of Dhamma in Family Life
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The Importance of Dhamma in Family Life
…en were taught morality, they became attached to Dhamma. They also enjoyed spending time with their grandparents because of reminders to do good deeds. In turn, the grandparents became respected by the children a…
การศึกษาธรรมะทุกวันช่วยให้บรรพบุรุษของเราได้รับการเตือนเสมอถึงการทำความดี การสะสมบุญส่งผลต่อความสุขในชีวิตและยับยั้งไม่ให้เกิดความทุกข์ การสอนบุตรหลานในทางธรรมทำให้เกิดความเคารพและรักในครอบครัว การทำส
Dhamma for Laypersons and the Four Levels of Beauty
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Dhamma for Laypersons and the Four Levels of Beauty
… 46 ------------------------------------------------------------ The Four Levels of Beauty Our grandparents not only taught us how to depend on ourselves, they also taught those who plan on marriage to selec…
…, and sacrifice. These traits ensure self-reliance and leadership within families. In marriage, our grandparents emphasized both outer and inner beauty, categorizing it into four levels: beauty of appearance, bod…
Cultivating Mindfulness through Eyes and Ears
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Cultivating Mindfulness through Eyes and Ears
…ositive, improving the mind which will extend to others. Anyone who can restrain their eyes as our grandparents advised will see the world optimistically, will not have the pessimistic way of finding faults in o…
This text emphasizes the significance of controlling what we see and hear for maintaining a calm and positive mind. By training our eyes not to focus on negativity and avoiding gossip, we can foster a
The Importance of Honoring Elders
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The Importance of Honoring Elders
grandparents. Moreover, they must extol their grandparents’ virtues to their children, both in the grandparents’…
การเคารพและดูแลผู้สูงอายุไม่เพียงแต่ส่งผลกระทบต่อคุณภาพชีวิตของพวกเขา แต่ยังสะท้อนพฤติกรรมที่ลูกๆ จะมีต่อพ่อแม่ในอนาคตเช่นกัน โดยการเป็นตัวอย่างที่ดี พ่อแม่ช่วยฝึกฝนลูกๆ ให้รู้จักความกตัญญูและการเคารพ
The Significance of Blessing in Thai Culture
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The Significance of Blessing in Thai Culture
… a family practiced before going to sleep. Parents would bring their children to pay respect to the grandparents every night. Then the grandparents would summarize all the good deeds they had done that day in a b…
คำว่าอวยพรในภาษาไทยหมายถึง 'วาระ' ซึ่งแปลว่าเป็นการให้สิ่งที่ดีที่สุดแก่กัน การอวยพรมีความสำคัญในวัฒนธรรมไทย โดยเฉพาะในการส่งผ่านคุณธรรมและความดีงามจากผู้สูงอายุไปยังเยาวชน ผ่านการเล่าเรื่องและพฤติกรร
การจัดการอารมณ์ในครอบครัว
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การจัดการอารมณ์ในครอบครัว
… Of course those who are able to control their emotions must have had training before marrying. Our grandparents encountered these issues throughout their lives. They established the following tenets regarding a …
The major concern is that, if the couple didn't learn how to regulate their emotions before their marriage, they would not be able to handle their disagreements in a positive manner, causing everyone
ความเข้าใจในสภาพชีวิต
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ความเข้าใจในสภาพชีวิต
Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in t…
Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in t…
การสร้างความดีและการฝึกสมาธิ
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การสร้างความดีและการฝึกสมาธิ
…en were taught morality, they became attached to Dhamma. They also enjoyed spending time with their grandparents because of reminders to do good deeds. In turn, the grandparents became respected by the children a…
By studying Dhamma every day, our ancestors were always reminded of the Lord Buddha's teaching about never failing to make merit. Because everyone will die someday, the only things that we can bring w
The Warm Hearted Family
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The Warm Hearted Family
…rm good deeds. We dedicate the merits accrued through every written word in this book, to our great grandparents (Soon and Huay Phongsawasdi), and to all of our family members that have passed on. Their real life…
In 'The Warm Hearted Family', the Phongsawasdi family shares their dedication to creating happiness and success through good deeds. They reflect on their ancestors who inspire their family values and
Dhamma for Laypersons: Cultivating Good Habits
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Dhamma for Laypersons: Cultivating Good Habits
…f-reliant person, a good shelter for others and a good family leader. The Four Levels of Beauty Our grandparents not only taught us how to depend on ourselves, they also taught those who plan on marriage to selec…
บุคคลที่มีธรรมสำหรับอุบาสกอุบาสิกาต้องแสดงถึงนิสัยประจำสี่ประการ ได้แก่ นิสัยความรับผิดชอบ, การฝึกฝนและพัฒนาตนเอง, ความอดทน, และการเสียสละและการให้ นิสัยเหล่านี้ช่วยทำให้กลายเป็นผู้นำครอบครัวที่ดี การ
Endurance and Gentleness in Family Life
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Endurance and Gentleness in Family Life
…h means the mind refined to a calm state. Therefore, in focusing on the refinement of the mind, our grandparents referred only to endurance and gentleness from Buddhist teachings as the main virtues to help refin…
In family life, endurance and gentleness are crucial for managing responsibilities and conflicts. As couples live together, they must cultivate patience for each other's weaknesses and practice calmne
The Warm Hearted Family: Managing Family Life
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The Warm Hearted Family: Managing Family Life
…a marriage counselor. 4) Must know how to purify the mind. All four Factors are guidelines that our grandparents provided us to elevate our virtues. After a wedding, many obligations and duties await. Although we…
เราต้องฝึกจิตใจให้สงบและเตรียมพร้อมสำหรับความไม่แน่นอนในชีวิต ถ้าเราเตรียมตัวดี ความไม่แน่นอนจะไม่ทำให้เครียด ผู้ที่เห็นความจริงของชีวิตและรักษาจิตใจให้นิ่งจะยกระดับคุณธรรมได้ดียิ่งขึ้น คำแนะนำจากปู่ย