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The Warm Hearted Family : หน้า 22/207 Explore the critical factors required for a successful marriage and how emotional regulation can create a peaceful family environment.
This text discusses the importance of emotional regulation in marriage and the need for couples to prepare before their union. It outlines four essential factors for a successful marriage, including self-reliance, selecting the right spouse, having a marriage counselor, and purifying the mind. Those who follow these principles can handle the responsibilities of marriage effectively, fostering strong familial bonds and societal respect. It emphasizes that by training themselves, couples can maintain harmony and joy in their home life, preventing conflicts from escalating and ensuring happiness for everyone involved. Effective management of emotions and healthy attitudes towards one another are fundamental to achieving these goals, ultimately leading to a fulfilling and stable family life.
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-Importance of emotional regulation in marriage -Four factors for successful marriage -Self-reliance in relationships -Role of marriage counselors -Purification of the mind for marital success
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clash with each other, or for them not to clash with their in-
laws. No matter what, there is always a chance that this can
happen.
The major concern is that, if the couple didn't learn how
to regulate their emotions before their marriage, they would
not be able to handle their disagreements in a positive manner,
causing everyone in the family great distress in every sense of
the word and disruption on a regular basis. They will not live
a peaceful life.
But if they had both trained themselves well before their
marriage, no matter the degree of disagreement, they should
be able to withhold their negative emotions and keep it from
carrying over to the next day. The family environment will
begin with a sense of calm and happiness. The couple will try
to discard their bad behaviors and bring out the best in one
another. An accepting and positive attitude towards each other
will result, thus creating strong bonds within the family and
increased prestige in society.
Of course those who are able to control their emotions
must have had training before marrying. Our grandparents
encountered these issues throughout their lives. They
established the following tenets regarding a marriage.
Anyone who can no longer wait to marry must first
achieve the following four factors in order to have a successful
marriage.
The 4 factors are:
1) Must be self-reliant.
2) Must know how to choose the right spouse.
3) Must have a marriage counselor.
4) Must know how to purify the mind.
Our grandparents insist that anyone getting ready for
marriage achieve these four important factors first, so that they
can handle all the responsibilities that marriage will bring them.
They will know what lies ahead and what the necessary
knowledge, abilities, and virtues are to become the finest
couple, the best daughter-in-law, the best son-in-law and the best
parents for their children. Imparting this knowledge will
enhance the couple's skills, ability and virtues so that their
marriage unfolds as expected.
The rest of this chapter will explain the rationale
supporting each factor and why these four factors are necessary
for a successful marriage.
Expectations in Marriage
Our grandparents told us the direct truth regarding the
reason people get married, which is that they lack self-
confidence; they are not sure if they can stand on their own
two feet. When you lack confidence, you must have some
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