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The Warm Hearted Family : หน้า 35/207 Learn how to cultivate a calm mind and elevate virtues in family life to prevent conflicts and maintain strong marriages.
we must train our minds to be calm and be ever ready for
life's uncertainties. If we are well-prepared for the unexpected,
we will be able to control our mind to remain alert and be able
to live with life's realities. Everyone is subject to Three
Characteristics, which features the certainty of uncertainty.
Persons who see the truth of life, who try to keep their
minds stable and who are influenced by the Eight Worldly
Conditions-like the earth that is not impacted by aromatic
or smelly objects will be able to elevate their virtues to a
greater level. This is the fourth magic form of conduct that
prevents divorce.
Conclusion - The essence of maintaining a marriage is
the elevation of virtue within a person, including every family
member, by relying on the following four factors:
1) Must be self-reliant.
2) Must know how to choose the right spouse.
3) Must have a marriage counselor.
4) Must know how to purify the mind.
All four Factors are guidelines that our grandparents
provided us to elevate our virtues. After a wedding, many
obligations and duties await. Although we think can not
withstand them, we must learn to withstand them. Unless a
person can elevate their virtues to a level that can handle all
the duties of marriage, they will not be able to maintain their
marriage.
When the couple feels completely satisfied with their
marriage, only two issues remain that must be focused on.
First, they must continue to endure anything that comes
along. Second, they must remain calm in the face of
unexpected circumstances.
If all members of a family follow these guidelines as
provided by our grandparents, family conflicts will never occur.
Each person will elevate their mind to a greater level. Divorce
will never befall the marriage. Children will have someone to
depend on and a good role model of a calm mind. The quality
of life will improve socially and economically along with the
quality of the mind. If every family in every country can
achieve this, it will greatly benefit the quality of the world's
people.
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