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we must train our minds to be calm and be ever ready for life's uncertainties. If we are well-prepared for the unexpected, we will be able to control our mind to remain alert and be able to live with life's realities. Everyone is subject to Three Characteristics, which features the certainty of uncertainty. Persons who see the truth of life, who try to keep their minds stable and who are influenced by the Eight Worldly Conditions-like the earth that is not impacted by aromatic or smelly objects will be able to elevate their virtues to a greater level. This is the fourth magic form of conduct that prevents divorce. Conclusion - The essence of maintaining a marriage is the elevation of virtue within a person, including every family member, by relying on the following four factors: 1) Must be self-reliant. 2) Must know how to choose the right spouse. 3) Must have a marriage counselor. 4) Must know how to purify the mind. All four Factors are guidelines that our grandparents provided us to elevate our virtues. After a wedding, many obligations and duties await. Although we think can not withstand them, we must learn to withstand them. Unless a person can elevate their virtues to a level that can handle all the duties of marriage, they will not be able to maintain their marriage. When the couple feels completely satisfied with their marriage, only two issues remain that must be focused on. First, they must continue to endure anything that comes along. Second, they must remain calm in the face of unexpected circumstances. If all members of a family follow these guidelines as provided by our grandparents, family conflicts will never occur. Each person will elevate their mind to a greater level. Divorce will never befall the marriage. Children will have someone to depend on and a good role model of a calm mind. The quality of life will improve socially and economically along with the quality of the mind. If every family in every country can achieve this, it will greatly benefit the quality of the world's people. The Warm Hearted Family How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 69 How to Manage Family Life