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squeezes us, controls us and wears us down to perform all kinds of bad deeds shamelessly. Then when we perform the bad deed, defilements let us suffer, receive punishments, experience all kinds of dis

…p. Hence, endurance or 'khanti' is essential for a warm-hearted family. For more information, visit dmc.tv.

hope that you will find someone else to help you with the many things in life. There are some who get married because they expect that their spouse will treat them favorably in different ways; and at

…reliance within a marital context. For more insights on family dynamics and self-development, visit dmc.tv.

words, it is the ability to have endurance for others' weaknesses. Once the couple is married and begins living together, there will be many responsibilities one must undertake for one's spouse and on

…ss enrich our relationships and promote a beautiful, serene state of mind shared with others. Visit dmc.tv for more insights on family life and Buddhist teachings.

Humans also have eyes. We must train our eyes to be like bamboo knots, because the most important aspect of eyesight is, "Don't look at things you aren't supposed to see. Don't look for trouble. Don't

…ng a calm, alert mind leads to better interactions and personal growth. For further insights, visit dmc.tv.

Chapter 3 Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love) In the book Thirty-eight Universal Steps to Eternal Happiness, compiled for the summer program for ordained monks by the Venerable Teacher Monk Somchai T

…deeper into the essence of love and compatibility. For more insights into happiness and love, visit dmc.tv.

The Buddha answered this question in one word: benevolence. That is to say mutual benevolence, the practice the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence (Sangahavatthu), promote happiness in living togethe

…ionships, ultimately leading to personal growth and improved moral conduct. For more insights visit dmc.tv.

Despite the behavior of one spouse, one should never waver from the Dhamma. Occasionally, the husband may go astray or the wife will resort to frivolous behavior, wasting time and money, leaving the h

…familial bonds and mutual support without resorting to negative behaviors. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.

Who was Lady Visakha? Visakha, a supreme Upasika [a Buddhist laywoman], was a very important person in Buddhism. She was responsible for the construction of Wat Buppharam, one of many ashrams, a cente

…ght her influence and generous contributions to the Buddhist community. For more information, visit dmc.tv.

with disabilities like deafness or blindness? Why are some people born into a wealthy family while others are born so poor that they cannot even get a drop of their mother's milk? Why are some born in

…stence and helps us comprehend the roots of Dukkha (suffering) experienced in life. Explore more at dmc.tv.

Chinese people understood this well. They even have a fable called "Teaching your Unborn Child" that has been retold continually since ancient times. During the Cheng Meng Season (a Chinese tradition

…verance in helping others, reinforcing familial values in Chinese culture. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.

Chapter 7 Raising Children to Be Smart and Virtuous Our world seems to become smaller in terms of its interconnectedness. Changes occurring around the world have immediate effects on us socially and e

…lect and morality, ultimately contributing to a better future for everyone. For more insights visit dmc.tv.

children. They must strictly adhere to the following three virtues: wisdom, discipline and loving kindness. This way, parents will have a chance to conceive a wonderful child. They will be good role m

…gn their approaches with the ever-changing perspectives of their children. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.

Chapter 10 Raising Our Children to be Good People In a society saturated with media, many parents are worried that their children will succumb to bad influences. How do we protect our children from th

…owth, enabling them to resist bad influences and develop into good people. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.

It is often too late when parents finally realize that this behavior stems from letting their children watch inappropriate television programs when they are not yet mature enough to discern right from

…ldren's moral development and promote healthier viewing habits. Further information can be found at dmc.tv.

Chapter 13 Children Who Are Addicted to the Internet We live in the era of the information super highway. Children are addicted not only to television, videos and cell phones, but also to the internet

… interest, thus a balanced approach is essential for healthy media habits. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.

Parents must teach children when to use the internet or to watch television. The key is to not let them sleep late. If the children sleep late, they will not want to get up in the morning, causing par

… sacrifices for better outcomes, like stopping screen time when necessary. For more insights, visit dmc.tv.

"If we look at the problem clearly, we will discover that its origins took root even before these children became teenagers and started to dress provocatively. We can trace it back to when these child

…sts a critical examination of how early experiences shape children's perceptions and behaviors. www.dmc.tv

Chapter 16 What Should Parents Do When Their Children Do Not Get Along? Here is a true story for parents who have not yet begun creating harmony in their families. There was once a family with three d

…the signs of conflict and take proactive steps to promote harmony, even after giving up hope. Visit dmc.tv for more resources on family dynamics.

However, I recommend following the first two pieces of advice first: Your parents should reduce their allowances and have them help each other at tasks. Children won't allow others to take advantage o

… habits, parents can help their children grow into caring individuals. More details can be found at dmc.tv.

their parents continue to defend them. Few want to admit that their children are less than angels. Therefore, I want to leave this thought with every child who is constantly demanding their parents to

… the deep responsibilities children hold in understanding and valuing their family relationships at dmc.tv.