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…y may cause many of the problems we see in society. When they were young, they were never taught to give up things that they liked in order to do the appropriate thing, like stop watching television when …

Parents are urged to teach their children when to use the internet and watch television to foster better habits. A case study of an English professor demonstrates how setting a rule for screen time le

…your sister?” “Yes, Father,” I would reply. “Then stand with your arms folded.” First, he would give the stick to my sister and let her whip me once for not respecting seniority, regardless of who was…

In a heartfelt discussion, a woman seeks guidance from a senior monk about her parents' conflicts affecting her family. The monk emphasizes the importance of resolving disputes early to prevent lastin

…uld do their own personal chores. They should be responsible for the same assigned tasks. This will give the siblings a chance to openly discuss the way to complete their tasks. This technique must be use…

The text offers advice on teaching children responsibility by encouraging them to manage their own chores and collaborate with siblings. It stresses the importance of reducing allowances and fostering

…upport and encouragement** with kind words. Even if we do not have anything to say, we can at least give a smile. The Warm Hearted Family 173 Remedying the Situation When Neighbors Fight

บทความนี้พูดถึงวิธีการสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีในชุมชน โดยเน้นที่การแสดงความเมตตาและความเคารพต่อเพื่อนบ้าน หากพ่อแม่มีอายุน้อยกว่าผู้ควบคุมควรพยายามเป็นมิตรเพื่อให้เพื่อนบ้านตระหนักและมีความอดทนในการโต้แ

…em. They think that it is their parents' duty, since they brought them into the world, to raise and give them everything they desire. In the end, it is the parents who feel the heartaches and disappointme…

The text discusses the 'War of Existence', emphasizing the necessity of a clear mind when caring for ill relatives and preparing children for the realities of life. It highlights the challenges parent

… Before returning to the South, take your son to the orphanage in Pakret City, Nonthaburi Province. Give whatever reasons you need to convince him to go. Make sure that he gives dana by offering lunch to …

บทความนี้สำรวจพฤติกรรมของเด็กที่มีปัญหากับพ่อแม่ในบริบทของความมั่งคั่งและกรรม โดยยกตัวอย่างเรื่องราวของเศรษฐีที่ปรึกษาเกี่ยวกับวิธีการทำให้ลูกชายของเขาเห็นคุณค่าของพ่อแม่ผ่านการทำบุญให้กับเด็กกำพร้า ก

…and the responsibilities involved. 5) When the time comes, bequeath your wealth and assets to them. Give them their inheritance in order for them to start their own legacy. The Warm Hearted Family 193 C…

This content discusses the crucial role of parents in guiding their children to develop good behavior and self-discipline. It emphasizes the immediate need to address any self-destructive behaviors. F

… help your father quit drinking, you should patiently seek a method that is suitable for him. Don’t give up, not even for one day, and then you will find a way. Dear respectable readers, now that you hav…

In this personal narrative, the author reflects on their father's battle with alcoholism as he aged. Wanting to help him accumulate merits in his later years, the author faced the challenge of persuad

Even the Lord Buddha, once enlightened, did not immediately return to Kapilavattthu City to give a Dhamma talk to his father. He realized that if he had done that, his father would not have listen…

After attaining enlightenment, Lord Buddha chose not to return immediately to Kapilavattthu to teach his father. Instead, he focused on sharing his wisdom with the people of Magadha to build his reput

…re hasty, expecting to see the outcomes immediately, and forgetting about common sense. “So let me give you an example. If we plant a seedling from a banana tree today, can we expect to eat bananas from …

The text discusses the importance of understanding the Law of Kamma, emphasizing that good deeds ultimately yield good outcomes, though results may take time. It illustrates the principle through a me

…e impatient persons expect that only their good deeds will bear fruit immediately, that is, if they give, they expect to be rewarded instantly, and this will make them happy. On the contrary, when they li…

This text draws an analogy between the stages of good deeds and the growth of banana plants, highlighting four key stages: self-satisfaction, development of character, realization of fortune, and soci

…al limitations. **The Conditions Outside** Even when we have been able to focus on the objective, give it our full effort, and stay within our limitations, there are still two outside conditions which c…

The content discusses the importance of wholeheartedly pursuing objectives without shortcuts to ensure high-quality results. Using the analogy of washing clothes, it emphasizes the need for thoroughne

…lity. A word of caution, we should know the mentality of the people around us. Initially, they may give us moral support. But once we advance too far and too fast, they may turn antagonistic, and try to …

This text uses the metaphor of growing banana plants to illustrate that good deeds require time and favorable conditions to yield positive outcomes. Just as banana plants take a year to bear fruit, go

…urring me to ordain. I wanted my mother and grandmother to see me in the saffron robes. I wanted to give them the chance to accumulate merits, and I wanted them not to worry about me any longer since I wo…

This narrative discusses the importance of familial love and the motivation behind the decision to ordain. The author reflects on moments that brought him close to death, which deepened his desire to

…d to be a good person you do not forget to cherish your parents or grandparents. This is the way to give your children examples of how to care for you when you reach old age, especially at your last momen…

This chapter emphasizes that even after parents have passed away, the duty of a grateful child continues. It highlights the importance of organizing a respectful funeral and conducting meritorious dee

Later, when the lives of these elderly people come to an end, their possessions will be given to their children. So, they will allow their adult children to be the caretakers of their fortunes…

This text discusses how elderly individuals, known as 'The Fruitful Person', prepare for their final days by passing on their possessions to their children. They reflect on their lives with pride, ens

…ogress and happiness. A blessing means the act of giving the very best. Therefore, when the elderly give a blessing to their descendants, it is equivalent to wishing them the very best. The Significance …

คำว่าอวยพรในภาษาไทยหมายถึง 'วาระ' ซึ่งแปลว่าเป็นการให้สิ่งที่ดีที่สุดแก่กัน การอวยพรมีความสำคัญในวัฒนธรรมไทย โดยเฉพาะในการส่งผ่านคุณธรรมและความดีงามจากผู้สูงอายุไปยังเยาวชน ผ่านการเล่าเรื่องและพฤติกรร

…he very best in oneself make a blessing holy?** When we approach elderly people of virtue and they give us a blessing, we may wonder why we feel a sense of sacredness. We ask ourselves, “What does a bles…

Daily practice of Dhamma has been essential for past generations, teaching the importance of accumulating merit over sin. By fostering moral values in families, ancestors contributed to the developmen

…egarding this matter. He said, “A blessing’s sacredness” is dependent upon “how honest the blessing-giver is towards his virtues.” If a blessing-giver is honest towards his virtues, his blessings will be…

In this narrative, a senior monk explains that the strength of a blessing is tied to the giver's honesty about their virtues. He illustrates this through the story of Venerable Angulimala, a re…

…ief that: "Those who become grandparents or are respected individuals must now prepare for a way to give a powerful blessing, should the occasion arise. Do not disappoint them with a blessing that sounds …

In this text, a senior monk shares insights on the importance of generosity and the practice of giving blessings. He emphasizes that those preparing for life's final chapter should cultivate good deed