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2. Fight with kindness. If the parents are younger than the neighbors, they should try to be friendlier. The neighbors may become more aware and argue more quietly. However, if the parents are older, have stable careers, and are well respected in the neighborhood, they need to initiate dialogue with the neighbors. Before engaging in a conversation, the parents must be friendly and well-regarded by their neighbors. **What must you do to be friendly and respected?** 1. A likeable person is someone who is selfless and giving. When a person shares his money or possessions with others, he is loved and appreciated. Even for us, when we receive something, we feel appreciated. If we are able to help, then we should offer our assistance. Even if we do not know what to offer, we can offer our **support and encouragement** with kind words. Even if we do not have anything to say, we can at least give a smile. The Warm Hearted Family 173 Remedying the Situation When Neighbors Fight