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Jealousy and Marital Struggles
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Jealousy and Marital Struggles
…me and ask: "Do you feel better now? Can you stop being so crazy?" Another problem that I faced was jealousy. I was a very jealous and possessive person by nature. I was suspicious of my husband's whereabouts…
This text delves into the author's personal struggles with jealousy and possessiveness within her marriage. The author describes rules she enacted, her husband's react…
The Tale of the White Elephant
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The Tale of the White Elephant
…white elephant is worthy of an universal monarch.” All this praise of his elephant awoke the king’s jealousy and he resolved to have it cast over a precipice and killed. So he summoned the mahout and asked wh…
…a under King Magadha, a stunning white elephant captured hearts during a royal procession, inciting jealousy in the king. Determined to rid himself of the source of praise, the king questioned the mahout abou…
The Pursuit of True Happiness
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The Pursuit of True Happiness
…tch they are happy, but then later on comes the suffering. Suffering in the form of concern, worry, jealousy, pride, pain, disappointment, etc... Sometimes the situation can end in divorce. This pain may one …
…happiness in companionship, experiencing initial joy that can later transform into suffering due to jealousy, pride, and disappointment. This can lead to severe outcomes like divorce, overshadowing initial ha…
Dummedha-Jātaka: The Folly of Jealousy
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Dummedha-Jātaka: The Folly of Jealousy
…ddha's perfections and all the distinctive signs of Buddhahood22 maddened Devadatta; and how in his jealousy he could not bear to hear the praises of the Buddha's utter wisdom. Entering the Hall, the Master a…
…he Buddha's wisdom and Perfections, Devadatta's madness led to his folly. This tale illustrates how jealousy can distort one's perception and lead to suffering. The narrative explores themes of envy, pride, a…
Ten Ways to Perform Good Deeds
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Ten Ways to Perform Good Deeds
…. Giving (dana). Giving is an act of generosity. Generosity is a weapon against greed, selfishness, jealousy and ill-will. Giving can be in many forms, such as giving money, clothing, food, or medicine, givin…
… through meditation. It emphasizes the importance of generosity in combating negative emotions like jealousy and greed. Keeping the Five Precepts not only improves personal well-being but also fosters a harmo…
The Power of Seriousness in Meditation
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The Power of Seriousness in Meditation
…atever I did, I did it with seriousness and intensity. I considered it a waste of time to engage in jealousy and competition. Those who deem themselves superior are often engaged in petty competition and stru…
…hasizes the value of maintaining a Dhamma mindset and the quest for inner peace. By not engaging in jealousy or competition, but instead dedicating time to meditation, one can achieve a higher level of succes…
Understanding Boon and Dhamma
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Understanding Boon and Dhamma
…ting baap which is bad energy. Baap is generated by thinking bad thoughts through greed, anger, and jealousy. It is, in fact, dirty energy and undermines your feeling good about what you do, and the desire to…
…at purifies the mind. Conversely, baap, or bad energy, arises from negative thoughts like greed and jealousy. Dhamma signifies pure nature leading to Nibbana and encompasses Buddha's teachings on cultivating …
Exploring the Nature of the Mind
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Exploring the Nature of the Mind
… The things that affect the mind, in other words, are things like delusion, anger, ignorance, fear, jealousy, and on and on. It presents to you a whole new set of problems to deal with. Of course, the more yo…
…can identify mental impurities, or 'defilements', which include negative emotions such as anger and jealousy. The idea of the individual versus universal mind is also explored, asserting that while everyone h…
The Importance of Generosity and Morality in Family Dynamics
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The Importance of Generosity and Morality in Family Dynamics
…s the day. Children who are taught to be giving and supportive of others do not exhibit greed, show jealousy, or exploit others; their minds become positive and radiant from the time the sun rises. Through th…
…y, contributing to positive family dynamics. Teaching children to be giving can eliminate greed and jealousy. Regularly observing moral precepts, such as the five precepts during morning rituals, fosters a pe…
Understanding the Law of Kamma and Workplace Promotion Criteria
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Understanding the Law of Kamma and Workplace Promotion Criteria
… reaction. If one of then had received any promotion there would not be any problem. Antagonism and jealousy only arise when the rewards are different. Therefore, there must be some clear-cut guidelines for t…
…face consequences, whether in this life or the next. In a workplace context, promotions can lead to jealousy among employees if not handled transparently. Clear guidelines and objectives are crucial in addres…
Dhamma for Laypersons: The Vital Heart of a Stable Family
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Dhamma for Laypersons: The Vital Heart of a Stable Family
… have this disease. The fact is, there are many facets to suspicion. Some suspicions are caused by jealousy, some are because of inequality, some are due to unfairness, and the most dangerous suspicion resul…
…ficant family issue, highlighting that it can arise among all family members and is often fueled by jealousy, inequality, and a lack of responsibility. For those who wish to maintain a harmonious family life,…
Truth for the Family: Understanding Kamma and Promotions
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Truth for the Family: Understanding Kamma and Promotions
…ments, or kilesa. If there had not been a promotion, there would not be any problem. Antagonism and jealousy arise when rewards are different. Therefore, there must be some clear-cut guidelines for promotions…
…romotions. It highlights the natural reactions of employees to discrepancies in promotions, such as jealousy and antagonism. Two main points are made: first, mere hard work may not guarantee promotion if obje…
The Four Problems in Marriage
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The Four Problems in Marriage
…ren. Distrust sparks the many facets of suspicion and discord with others. Some cases are caused by jealousy, some by inequality, some by deceitfulness, and some by a lack of responsibility. No matter what so…
…ion and discord. This issue can extend beyond spouses to siblings and parents, often exacerbated by jealousy, inequality, or deceit. On the other hand, stagnation occurs when family members lack self-control,…
Buddhist View on Sex
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Buddhist View on Sex
…sfaction that brings about some disadvantages if we do not know how to control ourselves. Sometimes jealousy, lust, anxiety and conflict are the result. Buddhism teaches people to treat it as a meaningful rel…
…s over mere sexual pleasure. It highlights how sexual passion can lead to negative emotions such as jealousy and anxiety, advocating for a sense of sacredness in sexual activity as it relates to family life. …
Delicate Love and Buddhist Values in Relationships
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Delicate Love and Buddhist Values in Relationships
…ome obsessed with it. Over-indulgence in intimacy could result in having unhealthy emotions such as jealousy, possessiveness, suspicion and fear of betrayal. We should not engage in intimacy with a lack of aw…
Delicate Love discusses the guidance provided by Buddhist traditions for couples in their married life, emphasizing ethical actions and the importance of The Five Precepts. It contrasts modern views o
The Transformative Power of Meditation
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The Transformative Power of Meditation
ERVICE I couldn't help thinking a lot, sometimes I kept thinking until midnight. One sleepless night, I decided to try meditating. I just sat and let time go by, waiting for myself to feel sleepy. I d
… herself to daily meditation, she experiences a transformation in her mind and emotions, overcoming jealousy and improving her relationship with her husband. The meditation practice empowers her to love herse…
Dhamma for Laypersons: The Vital Heart of a Stable Family
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Dhamma for Laypersons: The Vital Heart of a Stable Family
…t have this disease. The fact is, there are many facets to suspicion. Some suspicions are caused by jealousy, some are because of inequality, some are due to unfairness, and the most dangerous suspicion resul…
This text emphasizes the significance of understanding Dhamma for Laypersons to maintain family stability. It highlights four common family problems: suspicion, foolishness, tiredness, and selfishness
The Crocodile River Plot
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The Crocodile River Plot
7) In a village of Benares, sire, on the western side of a gentleman's house was a river full of savage crocodiles, and in this family was an only son, who on the death of his father watched over his
…ithout revealing his true intentions. The narrative illustrates the complexities of family loyalty, jealousy, and the lengths individuals will go to protect their interests. For further insights, visit dmc.tv…
Unlocking the Inner Light: A Path to Enlightenment
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Unlocking the Inner Light: A Path to Enlightenment
…as enemies because of our defined minds. Because of defilements we have feelings of sadness, anger, jealousy and we suffer. Thus, once we realize this we can see that defilements are the true enemy of humanki…
This text discusses the importance of meditation in unveiling the true nature of existence. It identifies defilements as the true enemy of humankind, leading to negative emotions such as sadness and a
The Impact of Family Dining Dynamics
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The Impact of Family Dining Dynamics
In a large family, members who do not eat dinner together have even more disagreements. Take for an example, if one day a mother cooks a very delicious meal that everyone enjoys, everyone will eat mor
… who arrive late face leftovers and additional chores, which can lead to feelings of resentment and jealousy. Such emotions may trigger minor sibling disputes that escalate into major arguments, including phy…