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…ndependent and free. They start spending late nights with their friends and experimenting with sex, thinking that it is trendy, cool, stylish and acceptable. But what they fail to realize is that their behavi…

การมีความรักก่อนความปรารถนาเป็นสิ่งสำคัญในการสร้างครอบครัวที่มีคุณค่า พ่อและแม่มีบทบาทสำคัญในการสอนลูกให้มีระเบียบวินัยและเคารพกฎแห่งกรรม เพื่อหลีกเลี่ยงพฤติกรรมที่นำไปสู่ผลเสียในชีวิต พฤติกรรมที่ขาดร

…ontaminating oneself with unwholesome and deluded thoughts, speech and actions, because one is only thinking of oneself. It shows we have no love for other people. In contrast, if we love ourselves, we would …

This text discusses the choice of living a celibate life within Buddhism, highlighting how observing The Eight Precepts on certain dates enables individuals to meet their spiritual obligations. It ref

…piritual differences"? Monica : Spiritual, well...I don't know if that's the proper word. But I was thinking about whether they have different responsibilities, or if one sex is more important than the other,…

In Buddhism, the gender of a child is not considered important for the spiritual progress of parents. Conversations highlight that responsibilities are not tied to the sex of the child, emphasizing th

…ar or a big house, and have a lot of material things around us. I think that you have good inspired thinking, so I wonder what gives a Buddhists life value. Luang Phaw: What matters most to Buddhists is Dhamm…

In this discussion, the speaker reflects on the differences between monastic and secular lifestyles, emphasizing the pursuit of Dhamma as the true source of happiness, in contrast to material possessi

… defilements in the mind will control them until they become slaves at performing bad deeds without thinking about the suffering of others. Associating with fools is similar to adding the dangerous infections…

This text discusses the impact of defilements on individuals and families, emphasizing how these negative influences lead to bad habits and a breakdown of unity within families. It identifies the 'Roa

…tation will enable them to fully achieve this goal. Those who have practiced meditation until their thinking is clear will know how to behave. They will not allow outside influences to affect their behavior. …

This text discusses the Buddha's concept of mutual benevolence as the foundation for happiness in relationships. It outlines the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence: Giving, Pleasant Speech, Mutual Be

…his case, the parents have a sage to raise. Good and bad habits come from the child's repetition of thinking, speaking, and acting. In particular, it is how they The Warm Hearted Family 104 Raising Children t…

Children's habits stem from the repetitive actions, thoughts, and speech they engage in, heavily influenced by their parents. If children are exposed to unwholesome behaviors, they may develop bad hab

… If they only make an effort to order out, eating while their eyes are glued to the television set, thinking about how the characters on television are much more attractive than our own spouses, their marriag…

Dinner is a vital meal for family bonding, preventing unresolved issues and conflicts. While some families resort to separate dinners and television, true warmth comes from shared meals. Couples shoul

…ent because of the high caliber of the teachers there. "I would like to remind you that this way of thinking is flawed, because teaching children to know good from bad and merit from sin are difficult tasks. …

Children face challenges later in life when parents neglect their responsibilities. This text explores how inadequate parenting skills contribute to children's understanding of right and wrong and the

… believe it is not sexual misconduct when it is consensual. One of men's most common flawed ways of thinking is: "what is wrong with soliciting a prostitute?" Buddhism's teachings clearly indicate that the qu…

In Chapter 23, the text discusses the increasing number of AIDS cases attributed to young men's beliefs about soliciting prostitutes being morally acceptable. It highlights Buddhism's view that the ac

…e attributes of an animal, we will not be able to perform meritorious deeds, and possess the higher thinking of a human being. The Warm Hearted Family 230 Father That Children Hate The Warm Hearted Family 231…

In addressing grievances about parental neglect, Luang Phaw emphasizes the importance of understanding kammic retribution. The boy expresses concerns about his father's irresponsible behavior, juxtapo

…e people begin to doubt the effectiveness of the Law of Kamma. This can really mislead anybody into thinking that good deeds do not bring about good outcomes. They may go as far as to abandon any good behavio…

This text discusses the Law of Kamma, illustrating how good deeds may not yield immediate positive outcomes and how bad actions can seem rewarded, causing doubt in moral principles. It emphasizes that

When people lose their faith in Buddhism, they do not teach their children to pay respect to the monks. They show no interest in studying Buddhist teachings and stop making merit. All temple activitie

…tagnation of temple activities. Negative portrayals of monks can mislead the public; thus, critical thinking is essential. The Sangha Council oversees monk discipline and handles transgressions. Buddhists are…

…when we reach a state of mental stillness that is clear from all thoughts and worries. Once we stop thinking, we will enjoy serenity and attain wisdom within, leading to wiser solutions while nourishing ourse…

Meditation allows us to reach a state of mental stillness, free from thoughts and worries. In this serene state, we can access the wisdom within, leading to wiser solutions to our problems. This pract

64 19 SOLUTIONS FROM WISDOM XXVI The Power of Merit Merit is the most important factor that leads us to a successful career and life. It will bring us positive thought, courage, and eloquence. Whateve

Merit is the key driver of success in both career and personal life. It fosters positive thinking, courage, and effective communication. With merit, achievements become easier, and individuals are …

… to find it elsewhere but simply to draw it out for personal use by training our mind with positive thinking and self-encouragement.

…. We study the law of Kamma in order to understand that every single action has its effect, whether thinking, saying or doing. Acknowledging this fact, we learn to accept the truth that sufferings are merely …

If we want to feel good, we just think of a wholesome subject such as the Lord Buddha or the Great Master Phramong- kolthepmuni, the discoverer of Dham- makaya Meditation, as our role models. Or think

…e subjects such as the Lord Buddha or Phramongkolthepmuni, who introduced Dhammakaya Meditation. By thinking about the purity represented by a crystal clear sphere or a Buddha image within ourselves, we can a…

…bright, clear and bright, clear and bright". Recite the mantra continuously, while at the same time thinking of the bright crystal ball, gently and comfortably. Focus your mind and be still at the center of p…

This text guides the reader through a meditation practice that emphasizes relaxation and focus. It begins with the feeling of a bird's feather touching water to center the mind at the abdomen. The pra

…don't want to recite the mantra anymore; or just want to be still, and the mind is not wandering or thinking about anything, and there is only the picture of bright crystal ball appearing clearly at the cente…

This text outlines the process of achieving a state of complete stillness during meditation. It emphasizes the importance of letting go of verbal mantras and instead focusing on a vision of a bright c