Understanding Child Behavior and Parental Responsibility : หน้า 98/207
The Warm Hearted Family : หน้า 98/207 Explore why children may behave poorly due to parental shortcomings and the importance of imparting moral values.
Children face challenges later in life when parents neglect their responsibilities. This text explores how inadequate parenting skills contribute to children's understanding of right and wrong and the importance of teaching moral values. Parents sometimes inappropriately shield their children from experiences without offering explanations, which can hinder their independence. It emphasizes that while children need education, parents must also convey moral lessons personally, rather than relying solely on teachers. Teaching right from wrong is crucial for children to resist negative influences like drugs or alcohol. Focusing on Buddha's teachings at home can help instill good behavior in children.
หัวข้อประเด็น
-Parental Responsibility -Teaching Morality -Impact of Parenting on Behavior -Education Expectations -Buddha's Teachings on Morals
ข้อความต้นฉบับในหน้า
Children often encounter problems later in life because
the parents did not fulfill these responsibilities.
Why Do Some Children Behave Badly?
Our ancestors provided us with a very interesting answer.
"The parental skills we find today are a cause for concem.
Let's not even worry about their inability to teach their children
to avoid bad deeds and only do good deeds because some
parents can't even discern right from wrong, good from bad,
and merit from sin. Some are even engaging in bad behavior
in front of their children to witness. This is the scariest part of
it all."
Do Not Leave Teaching to Only the Teachers
Our ancestors stated:
"Some parents are capable of separating good from bad,
but do not impart that knowledge to their children. Since their
love and concern for their children are so great, they can
become overprotective. They forbid their children from going
anywhere without giving the reasons why.
Parents should realize that they cannot be with their
children at all times. One way or another, children will find a
way to be independent. Instead of forbidding them from doing
something without reason, it would be more beneficial to take
the time to teach them about good and bad, right and wrong,
and the reasons we should or should not do something. Teach
and encourage them regularly to perform good deeds.
When it comes to their children's education most parents
are fully supportive, but some have too high of an expectation.
Our ancestors provided the following thought to consider.
"Some parents push their children into famous and
reputable schools in Thailand regardless of high tuition costs.
Their only concern is that their children, once enrolled, will
become intelligent because of the high caliber of the teachers
there.
"I would like to remind you that this way of thinking is
flawed, because teaching children to know good from bad and
merit from sin are difficult tasks. This subject requires
extensive explanation, and it is better suited for instruction on
an individual basis or with only two to three children at a time.
Parents must explain in such a way that the child can absorb
the information. It is too great of an expectation to think that
school teachers will be able to teach them these things because
teachers already have many students to be responsible for."
When children are home, parents should first focus on
the Lord Buddha's teachings on moral behavior before
proceeding to other topics like selecting a spouse and family
inheritance. In the end, when confronted with temptations
like clubbing, alcohol and drugs, their children will be able to
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