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4) Sacrifice or caga is the means to correct the problem of selfishness. Charity means sacrifice. There are 3 types: 1) Sacrifice of material objects 2) Sacrifice of comfort 3) Sacrifice of negative e

This text discusses the significance of sacrifice within family structures, emphasizing that true charity involves giving up material comforts and negative emotions for the greater good of the family.

own personal desires, and the husband and wife do not combine their incomes from the beginning, that means that one is preparing go one's separate way from the start because neither person is thinking

Marriage requires mutual dependence and sacrifice between partners. Couples should consider their ability to support each other emotionally and financially, especially during illness or hardship. Self

Chapter 2 How to Manage Family Life The practice of regulating one's emotions prior to getting married is an important foundation of maintaining a marriage. But if both parties never learned to contro

Chapter 2 discusses the importance of managing one's emotions before marriage as a foundation for a lasting relationship. When couples lack emotional control, they may hurt each other, leading to pote

clash with each other, or for them not to clash with their in- laws. No matter what, there is always a chance that this can happen. The major concern is that, if the couple didn't learn how to regulat

This text discusses the importance of emotional regulation in marriage and the need for couples to prepare before their union. It outlines four essential factors for a successful marriage, including s

3) They must have a life teacher or a good counselor advising them on marriage and relationships. Otherwise, it is possible that they will not be able to maintain a long relationship. 4) They must be

In marriage, the guidance of elders is vital for sustaining a long-term relationship. They provide necessary advice on spouse selection and morality, ensuring a foundation for a peaceful family life.

gentleness in their minds. So they converted these virtues into metaphors for practical purposes, which included the following four magic forms of conduct: Magic Form of Conduct #1: Eyes like the knot

This text discusses how ancient wisdom transforms natural elements into metaphors for moral conduct and mind purification. It explains four magic forms of conduct inspired by nature, such as 'Eyes lik

honest with every job they did throughout their lives, they could tell their stories proudly: "Ever since we were young, when we had to get a job, even if it was to empty or to clean the toilets, we w

การทำงานอย่างซื่อสัตย์เป็นสิ่งสำคัญที่สามารถสร้างความภาคภูมิใจในครอบครัว แม้จะมีงานที่มีสถานะต่ำ แต่ก็ไม่ควรอายที่จะทำงานอย่างเต็มใจและมีคุณธรรม การทำงานที่มีคุณธรรมจะทำให้จิตใจสงบและลดความริษยา สามาร

Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in this world, we are subject to both gratification and disappointment; it is a matter o

This text delves into the wisdom imparted by grandparents and the Buddha regarding the Eight Worldly Conditions, which influence human emotions of gratification and disappointment. These conditions ca

1. Five Responsibilities of a Husband to His Wife 1.1 Appreciation. The husband should openly respect her as his lawful wedded wife, not furtively keeping her like a mistress. If his wife does somethi

เนื้อหานี้แสดงถึงความรับผิดชอบของสามีต่อภรรยา ได้แก่ การให้ความเคารพ, การไม่ดูถูก, ความซื่อสัตย์, การให้สิทธิในการตัดสินใจและการดูแลเรื่องเสริมสวย ขณะเดียวกันก็ระบุความรับผิดชอบของภรรยาต่อสามี เช่น กา

Who was Lady Visakha? Visakha, a supreme Upasika [a Buddhist laywoman], was a very important person in Buddhism. She was responsible for the construction of Wat Buppharam, one of many ashrams, a cente

Lady Visakha, a significant Upasika in Buddhism, constructed Wat Buppharam in Savatthi, building a residence with 1,000 rooms for the Bhikkhus. Born into wealth in Magadha, she became instrumental in

When they reached Magadha, which was 112 kilometers from the capital of Kosol, Tanachai asked King Pasantikosol, "The city is small and I have a large number of retinue with me. It will be inconvenien

In ancient times, when reaching Magadha, Tanachai requested King Pasantikosol to establish a new town named Sakethu due to its convenience for his large retinue. The significance of this town is noted

and to retire after everyone else. Make sure you take care of all business before going to bed so that you will rest peacefully. 9. Be respectful of the fire within. The anger of your in-laws or your

หนังสือเล่มนี้นำเสนอแนวทางและข้อเสนอแนะในการสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีภายในครอบครัว เช่น การดูแลเอาใจใส่ในความรู้สึกของสมาชิกภายในบ้าน การให้เกียรติแก่กันและกัน รวมถึงการฝึกฝนความเมตตาและความเข้าใจ โดยเฉพ

with disabilities like deafness or blindness? Why are some people born into a wealthy family while others are born so poor that they cannot even get a drop of their mother's milk? Why are some born in

This text examines profound questions about social and physical inequalities in life, such as wealth disparity and disability. It emphasizes that these variations, though perceived as normal, have dee

The Lord Buddha taught that: 1. It is not the end of all things when we die. 2. When you perform good deeds you will go to Heaven. 3. When you perform bad deeds you will go to hell. 4. When you exting

พระพุทธเจ้าทรงสอนว่า ชีวิตหลังความตายยังไม่ใช่จุดสิ้นสุด เราควรทำความดีเพื่อไปสวรรค์และหลีกเลี่ยงการทำบาปเพื่อนำไปสู่นรก เมื่อเราสลัดกิเลสได้หมดสิ้น เราจะได้ไปนิพพาน ในวัฏจักรแห่งการเกิดใหม่ การทำบุญเ

Being born a human requires not only the combination of the father's sperm and the mother's egg, but also the spiritual conception of the child in the womb. The tiny being can only begin life in the m

การเกิดมนุษย์ไม่เพียงแต่ต้องใช้สเปิร์มของพ่อกับไข่ของแม่ แต่ยังต้องมีการตั้งครรภ์ทางจิตวิญญาณของเด็กในครรภ์อีกด้วย เด็กจะเริ่มชีวิตในครรภ์ของแม่ได้ก็ต่อเมื่อมีกรรมที่คล้ายคลึงกับพ่อแม่ในขณะตั้งครรภ์ พ

Chinese people understood this well. They even have a fable called "Teaching your Unborn Child" that has been retold continually since ancient times. During the Cheng Meng Season (a Chinese tradition

The story unfolds during the Cheng Meng Season, where two sisters find a bag of money. The older sister, teaching her unborn child about virtues, insists on waiting for the rightful owner. When two wo

In some families, we see virtuous parents have intelligent children, but the parents do not know how to raise them. As a result, the children turn out to be troublesome and the parents are puzzled ove

In families, virtuous parents may have intelligent children but struggle with proper upbringing. Successful child-rearing depends on parents having knowledge and time. The text identifies four types o

Where do Children's Habits come from? After parents learn that good children must not be troublesome, ignorant, or careless towards others, the question now is, how do parents cultivate these traits i

Children's habits stem from the repetitive actions, thoughts, and speech they engage in, heavily influenced by their parents. If children are exposed to unwholesome behaviors, they may develop bad hab

Raising a Child to be Wholesome Wholesome children have parents who have taught them to have discipline in both their worldly lives and in Dhamma. Discipline is taught in conjunction with their use of

การเลี้ยงดูเด็กให้มีความดีงามนั้นเริ่มจากการสร้างวินัยทั้งในชีวิตประจำวันและในด้านธรรมะ โดยการตั้งตัวอย่างที่ดีจากพ่อแม่ ผู้ปกครองควรสอนเด็กให้มีวินัยในการพูด การใช้เวลา ความสะอาด และการจัดระเบียบ เพื

2) If they do not keep the second Precept (No stealing) then: They might engage in corruption. 3) If they do not keep the third Precept (No sexual misconduct) then: They might engage in prostitution.

การอบรมเด็กให้มีความใส่ใจต่อผู้อื่นนั้นมีความสำคัญอย่างยิ่ง พ่อแม่ควรสอนให้เด็กเรียนรู้การดูแลตนเองและสร้างความสามารถในการช่วยเหลือผู้อื่น การมีความอดทนใน 4 ด้านช่วยพัฒนาเด็กให้เป็นผู้มีประโยชน์เมื่อเ