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Understanding Marital Conflicts and Endurance
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Understanding Marital Conflicts and Endurance
there is something that still displeases us. When we are displeased with ourselves, they are considered weaknesses that have turned into bad habits. And we will notice that we have overlooked so many
This text discusses the inherent weaknesses in marital relationships, highlighting that all couples face conflicts regardless of how well they get along. It emphasizes the importance of endurance, not
Endurance Against Defilements: Building a Stable Family
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Endurance Against Defilements: Building a Stable Family
squeezes us, controls us and wears us down to perform all kinds of bad deeds shamelessly. Then when we perform the bad deed, defilements let us suffer, receive punishments, experience all kinds of dis
This text discusses the impact of defilements on individuals and families, emphasizing how these negative influences lead to bad habits and a breakdown of unity within families. It identifies the 'Roa
The Importance of Sacrifice in Family Life
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The Importance of Sacrifice in Family Life
4) Sacrifice or caga is the means to correct the problem of selfishness. Charity means sacrifice. There are 3 types: 1) Sacrifice of material objects 2) Sacrifice of comfort 3) Sacrifice of negative e
This text discusses the significance of sacrifice within family structures, emphasizing that true charity involves giving up material comforts and negative emotions for the greater good of the family.
The Foundation of Marriage: Sacrifice and Care
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The Foundation of Marriage: Sacrifice and Care
After one gets married, the foundation of one's life lies in sacrifice for each other. If ever we become selfish towards each other, it will be followed by divorce or murder. Sacrifice in marriage is
This text discusses the fundamental aspects of marriage, emphasizing that the foundation of a successful relationship lies in sacrifice for one another. It highlights how caring for each other, both p
How to Manage Family Life
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How to Manage Family Life
Chapter 2 How to Manage Family Life The practice of regulating one's emotions prior to getting married is an important foundation of maintaining a marriage. But if both parties never learned to contro
Chapter 2 discusses the importance of managing one's emotions before marriage as a foundation for a lasting relationship. When couples lack emotional control, they may hurt each other, leading to pote
Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Factors for Success
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Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Factors for Success
clash with each other, or for them not to clash with their in- laws. No matter what, there is always a chance that this can happen. The major concern is that, if the couple didn't learn how to regulat
This text discusses the importance of emotional regulation in marriage and the need for couples to prepare before their union. It outlines four essential factors for a successful marriage, including s
Understanding Marriage Expectations
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Understanding Marriage Expectations
hope that you will find someone else to help you with the many things in life. There are some who get married because they expect that their spouse will treat them favorably in different ways; and at
This text discusses the misconceptions surrounding marriage and the impact of unrealistic expectations on relationships. Many enter marriage hoping their spouses will meet their needs continuously, wh
Dhamma for Laypersons: Cultivating Good Habits
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Dhamma for Laypersons: Cultivating Good Habits
A person who has the Dhamma for Laypersons (Gharavas-dhamma) must display four regular habits: 1. Habit of Responsibility - Whatever the task at hand, he must do it to the best of his ability, in term
บุคคลที่มีธรรมสำหรับอุบาสกอุบาสิกาต้องแสดงถึงนิสัยประจำสี่ประการ ได้แก่ นิสัยความรับผิดชอบ, การฝึกฝนและพัฒนาตนเอง, ความอดทน, และการเสียสละและการให้ นิสัยเหล่านี้ช่วยทำให้กลายเป็นผู้นำครอบครัวที่ดี การ
Understanding the Beauty of Mind and Family Guidance
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Understanding the Beauty of Mind and Family Guidance
that warn, "Sweet words are more devastating" or "Sweet beginning, bitter ending" or "Sweet mouth, sour bottom." 4th Level: Beauty of Mind - This is the beauty of the virtue within a person, which can
เนื้อหานี้สำรวจระดับความสวยงามของคนซึ่งยกย่องการมีศีลธรรมในความรับผิดชอบและกิจกรรมประจำวัน บทความยังเน้นถึงบทบาทสำคัญของผู้ให้คำปรึกษาในเรื่องการแต่งงาน ผู้ที่มีประสบการณ์สามารถช่วยแก้ไขปัญหาครอบครัวแ
Endurance and Gentleness in Family Life
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Endurance and Gentleness in Family Life
words, it is the ability to have endurance for others' weaknesses. Once the couple is married and begins living together, there will be many responsibilities one must undertake for one's spouse and on
In family life, endurance and gentleness are crucial for managing responsibilities and conflicts. As couples live together, they must cultivate patience for each other's weaknesses and practice calmne
Metaphors for Mind Purification
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Metaphors for Mind Purification
gentleness in their minds. So they converted these virtues into metaphors for practical purposes, which included the following four magic forms of conduct: Magic Form of Conduct #1: Eyes like the knot
This text discusses how ancient wisdom transforms natural elements into metaphors for moral conduct and mind purification. It explains four magic forms of conduct inspired by nature, such as 'Eyes lik
The Art of Mindful Observation
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The Art of Mindful Observation
Humans also have eyes. We must train our eyes to be like bamboo knots, because the most important aspect of eyesight is, "Don't look at things you aren't supposed to see. Don't look for trouble. Don't
In this insightful guide, the text emphasizes the importance of training our eyes and ears to focus on positivity and wisdom. It advocates not to dwell on others' faults or listen to gossip, which can
Managing Gossip and Compliments for a Peaceful Mind
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Managing Gossip and Compliments for a Peaceful Mind
When some people learn they are being gossiped about, they become so furious that they could kill the person who started the rumor. But if we know how to turn our ears into a wok handles, those words
When faced with gossip, it's crucial to avoid anger and take comments lightly, allowing them to blow away. By not taking insults to heart, individuals can maintain a peaceful mindset. Compliments shou
The Importance of Honest Work in Family Life
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The Importance of Honest Work in Family Life
honest with every job they did throughout their lives, they could tell their stories proudly: "Ever since we were young, when we had to get a job, even if it was to empty or to clean the toilets, we w
การทำงานอย่างซื่อสัตย์เป็นสิ่งสำคัญที่สามารถสร้างความภาคภูมิใจในครอบครัว แม้จะมีงานที่มีสถานะต่ำ แต่ก็ไม่ควรอายที่จะทำงานอย่างเต็มใจและมีคุณธรรม การทำงานที่มีคุณธรรมจะทำให้จิตใจสงบและลดความริษยา สามาร
Understanding the Three Characteristics of Existence
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Understanding the Three Characteristics of Existence
When we receive fortune, prestige, recognition or happiness, our minds will remain calm, not overwhelmed or attached. A person who is aware of suffering and happiness has trained the mind to be as sta
This text elaborates on the Three Characteristics: impermanence, suffering, and non-self, as fundamental truths of existence in Buddhism. It highlights how fortune, prestige, and happiness are tempora
The Warm Hearted Family: Managing Family Life
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The Warm Hearted Family: Managing Family Life
we must train our minds to be calm and be ever ready for life's uncertainties. If we are well-prepared for the unexpected, we will be able to control our mind to remain alert and be able to live with
เราต้องฝึกจิตใจให้สงบและเตรียมพร้อมสำหรับความไม่แน่นอนในชีวิต ถ้าเราเตรียมตัวดี ความไม่แน่นอนจะไม่ทำให้เครียด ผู้ที่เห็นความจริงของชีวิตและรักษาจิตใจให้นิ่งจะยกระดับคุณธรรมได้ดียิ่งขึ้น คำแนะนำจากปู่ย
Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love)
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Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love)
Chapter 3 Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love) In the book Thirty-eight Universal Steps to Eternal Happiness, compiled for the summer program for ordained monks by the Venerable Teacher Monk Somchai T
In Chapter 3 of 'Thirty-eight Universal Steps to Eternal Happiness', the concept of cherishing love within marriage is explored by Venerable Teacher Monk Somchai Tanavuddho. The chapter emphasizes the
Five Responsibilities of a Husband and Wife in Marriage
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Five Responsibilities of a Husband and Wife in Marriage
1. Five Responsibilities of a Husband to His Wife 1.1 Appreciation. The husband should openly respect her as his lawful wedded wife, not furtively keeping her like a mistress. If his wife does somethi
เนื้อหานี้แสดงถึงความรับผิดชอบของสามีต่อภรรยา ได้แก่ การให้ความเคารพ, การไม่ดูถูก, ความซื่อสัตย์, การให้สิทธิในการตัดสินใจและการดูแลเรื่องเสริมสวย ขณะเดียวกันก็ระบุความรับผิดชอบของภรรยาต่อสามี เช่น กา
King Pasantikosol and Lady Visakha's Wisdom
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King Pasantikosol and Lady Visakha's Wisdom
When they reached Magadha, which was 112 kilometers from the capital of Kosol, Tanachai asked King Pasantikosol, "The city is small and I have a large number of retinue with me. It will be inconvenien
In ancient times, when reaching Magadha, Tanachai requested King Pasantikosol to establish a new town named Sakethu due to its convenience for his large retinue. The significance of this town is noted
The Warm Hearted Family
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The Warm Hearted Family
and to retire after everyone else. Make sure you take care of all business before going to bed so that you will rest peacefully. 9. Be respectful of the fire within. The anger of your in-laws or your
หนังสือเล่มนี้นำเสนอแนวทางและข้อเสนอแนะในการสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีภายในครอบครัว เช่น การดูแลเอาใจใส่ในความรู้สึกของสมาชิกภายในบ้าน การให้เกียรติแก่กันและกัน รวมถึงการฝึกฝนความเมตตาและความเข้าใจ โดยเฉพ