control : ​ค้นหาหนังสือธรรมะ หน้า 12 / 13

…ot, committing suicide is a most desperate and unwise act. It's the action of the one who is out of control and out of reason. In Buddhism, suicide of all types are said to increase rebirth in the realms of …

Ka นทนาธรรมยามว่าง ดวงธรรม The Noble Truth of the Cause of Dukkha ทุกขสมุทัยอริยสัจ John : Sam, last time we talked, the topic was the First Noble Truth - Dukkha or suffering. Sam : John : Do you acce

…ks even one element of the Dhamma for Laypersons the four elements being truthfulness (Sacca), self-control (Dama), endurance (Khanti), and sacrifice (Caga) will certainly experience one or more of four prob…

The following subject matter is very important for all families; whoever wants to get married, whoever wants to have children, whoever wants to have a husband or a wife must study these pages to gain

…tly having family problems, must have the Dhamma for Laypersons as a foundation. Truthfulness, self-control, endurance, and sacrifice are the heart of the family. It is the vital heart that family members mu…

After one gets married, the foundation of one's life lies in sacrifice for each other. If ever we become selfish towards each other, it will be followed by divorce or murder. Sacrifice in marriage is

…g strong bonds within the family and increased prestige in society. Of course those who are able to control their emotions must have had training before marrying. Our grandparents encountered these issues th…

The major concern is that, if the couple didn't learn how to regulate their emotions before their marriage, they would not be able to handle their disagreements in a positive manner, causing everyone

…t is not worth listening to, in order to keep the mind serene. Therefore, a person who knows how to control the mind by knowing when to make their ears like wok handles tends to have a peaceful mind. This is…

When some people learn they are being gossiped about, they become so furious that they could kill the person who started the rumor. But if we know how to turn our ears into a wok handles, those words

…oney, a house, a child or a spouse. 2) Loss of Prestige is loss of authority, rank, or the power to control. 3) Gossiping is direct or indirect criticism. 4) Suffering is both mental and physical suffering. …

Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in this world, we are subject to both gratification and disappointment; it is a matter o

…n end and disappear. 3. Non-self (anattata): means the soullessness of everything. It is beyond our control and we cannot withhold it or possess it. For example, we are unable to prevent aging, sickness and …

When we receive fortune, prestige, recognition or happiness, our minds will remain calm, not overwhelmed or attached. A person who is aware of suffering and happiness has trained the mind to be as sta

…ers. When I was young, I would sometimes argue with my sisters. But my father would exert immediate control over the situation. And we stopped our arguments right away. My father prevented conflicts among hi…

In the end, she made the decision to ask a respected senior monk at a temple. She told him that her two sisters were still in school. When they graduated and could look after themselves, there would b

…sequence of not assessing people well and for choosing someone like that as a husband. You can only control your own behavior, and it is best to retain your dignity by not retaliating in kind. Changing an ad…

1) A husband strays because he lacks something from his wife Although this is a very difficult task, a wife needs to understand the shortcomings she may have which influenced her husband to cheat. Sea

… to keep our nature. 3. By nature, humans will not commit adultery. Animals, which by nature cannot control themselves to be content with one mate, will fight to mate each year with another's partner. Some e…

What is the Nature of Human Beings? The nature of human beings consists of five characteristics. 1. By nature, humans will not kill. A human who takes life has deviated from the nature of humankind. H

…ome disagreements may have been unavoidable, no matter how serious the situation became, they would control themselves as best as they could and would reasonably settle the argument. Descendants who are taug…

family members fight over property or money. This causes the decline of the very best in the family and problems can only increase. Since our ancestors fully understood this fact, they led their desce