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uplifting words, words of encouragement and praises. They will feel happy, motivated and inspired to keep doing the right things. But do not be excessive with your praise, or the meaning may become frivolous. A husband and wife should try to find good qualities in each other and speak positively between themselves. If your wife cooks a meal for you, give her a compliment for her effort. If there is something bothering you, keep calm and smile before you speak Pleasant speech is like honey. The words "I love you" are words of honey. The sweetness of these words can breathe life into your marriage and carry you from one lovely day to the next. It fulfils you like a good meal. We cannot just eat a good meal every other year to be fulfilled, we need it as often as possible. Likewise, we need to feed our partner with the food of love frequently. We need to say it often and remind each other regularly of how much we love and care for each other. Even husbands and wives who have lived together for a long time need to remind themselves regularly of this fact. A wife may complain that her husband no longer tells her he loves her like he used to. He may make the excuse that he said it 50 years ago, and that it still stands today. The truth is, the more "I love you" is said to the other party, the more love there is to be felt. Love Simultaneously, Be Angry at Different Times When a couple decides to live together, they must find ways to maintain their love. Nobody is perfect, and since both individuals are normal human beings, each person will have his or her own shortcomings. When we live alone, our shortcomings are kept to ourselves. But when we live with other people, our shortcomings become noticeable to others. We can deal with our own shortcomings but we will have less tolerance towards the shortcomings of others. Living with other people brings out many issues and challenges that do not usually exist when we live by ourselves. What can two imperfect individuals do to maintain a peaceful household? PDF created with pdfFactory Pro trial version www.pdffactory.com