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Dhamma for Laypersons: The Vital Heart of a Stable Family
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Dhamma for Laypersons: The Vital Heart of a Stable Family
…s to have children, whoever wants to have a husband or a wife must study these pages to gain a deep understanding. This is because all problems that develop in a family revolve around these issues. If t…
This text emphasizes the significance of understanding Dhamma for Laypersons to maintain family stability. It highlights four common family pro…
Understanding Family Challenges: Foolishness and Disconnection
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Understanding Family Challenges: Foolishness and Disconnection
… judge in Chiang Mai, Thailand once spoke about a case that took place some time ago concerning a young adult who was under 18 years of age. This young adult had broken the law, and the court sentenced …
…ponsibilities. Ultimately, families must recognize and address these dynamics to foster harmony and understanding. More resources available on dmc.tv.
Dhamma for Laypersons: Building a Stable Family
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Dhamma for Laypersons: Building a Stable Family
…ng sense of trust towards each other. If these words are expressed in this way, some people may not understand the concept clearly. However, if the concept is explained in a way that allows people to pu…
… The document emphasizes the significance of each family member's role in maintaining trust and accountability to avoid conflicts. Through these teachings, families are encouraged to cultivate a heart t…
Building a Trustworthy Family
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Building a Trustworthy Family
…m of suspicion will develop. Then how can they live together? Thus, for a family to have a strong foundation, family members must have truthfulness or sacca as the first habit. 2) Self-control or dama c…
…Good people avoid associations with dishonesty. A family lacking truthfulness cultivates suspicion, undermining harmony. To strengthen familial ties, members should embrace sacca (truthfulness) and dama…
Understanding Marital Conflicts and Endurance
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Understanding Marital Conflicts and Endurance
… in the same house are good to each other, they will still have weaknesses. If we think that we are unable to endure this, please do not have a weak heart and get married. But nowadays, although some pe…
…tance of endurance, not just between spouses, but also with extended family. The need for clear communication about the ability to tolerate each other is crucial before marriage. Critical questions to c…
The Importance of Sacrifice in Family Life
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The Importance of Sacrifice in Family Life
…fe must think about the overall happiness of the family more than their individual happiness. The foundations of livelihood are the Four Requisites. However, the most important aspects one must know bef…
…r alcohol may disrupt a family’s budget and foster selfishness, which ultimately jeopardizes family unity.
The Importance of Sacrifice in Marriage
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The Importance of Sacrifice in Marriage
own personal desires, and the husband and wife do not combine their incomes from the beginning, that means that one is preparing go one's separate way from the start because neither person is thinking
…ires can lead to problems and even abuse within a marriage. Couples must prepare for parenthood and understand the importance of raising children with knowledge and goodness to create a harmonious famil…
Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Factors for Success
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Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Factors for Success
…who are able to control their emotions must have had training before marrying. Our grandparents encountered these issues throughout their lives. They established the following tenets regarding a marriag…
…the importance of emotional regulation in marriage and the need for couples to prepare before their union. It outlines four essential factors for a successful marriage, including self-reliance, selectin…
Understanding Marriage Expectations
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Understanding Marriage Expectations
…only physical attraction that matters, when external beauty subsides, chances that a spouse will be unfaithful are high. Some people get married because they are infatuated with the other's good behavio…
This text discusses the misconceptions surrounding marriage and the impact of unrealistic expectations on relationships. Many enter marriage hopin…
Dhamma for Laypersons: Cultivating Good Habits
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Dhamma for Laypersons: Cultivating Good Habits
…ontinuous progress. 3. Habit of endurance - Whatever the task, he is able to overcome all obstacles until the task is complete, regardless of weather, illness, or conflict, as well as withstanding tempt…
บุคคลที่มีธรรมสำหรับอุบาสกอุบาสิกาต้องแสดงถึงนิสัยประจำสี่ประการ ได้แก่ นิสัยความรับผิดชอบ, การฝึกฝนและพัฒนาตนเอง, ความอดทน, และการเสียสละและการให้ นิสัยเหล่านี้ช่วยทำให้กลายเป็นผู้นำครอบครัวที่ดี การ
The Importance of Elders in Marriage and Family Life
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The Importance of Elders in Marriage and Family Life
3) They must have a life teacher or a good counselor advising them on marriage and relationships. Otherwise, it is possible that they will not be a…
…ong-term relationship. They provide necessary advice on spouse selection and morality, ensuring a foundation for a peaceful family life. Training oneself in virtues like endurance and sacrifice is cruci…
Endurance and Gentleness in Family Life
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Endurance and Gentleness in Family Life
…Once the couple is married and begins living together, there will be many responsibilities one must undertake for one's spouse and one's relatives. A higher degree of endurance is required at this stage…
…, individuals can elevate their morality and contribute to a harmonious family life, where love and understanding reign. Meditation serves as a powerful tool to maintain tranquility and prevent chaos, e…
Metaphors for Mind Purification
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Metaphors for Mind Purification
…on of each metaphor is as follows: 1) Eyes like the knots of a bamboo tree, means we should keep an unshifting gaze. This includes not paying attention to stressful situations and not meddling in the bu…
This text discusses how ancient wisdom transforms natural elements into metaphors for moral conduct and mind purification. It explains four magic forms of conduct inspired by nature, such as 'Eyes lik
The Art of Mindful Observation
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The Art of Mindful Observation
Humans also have eyes. We must train our eyes to be like bamboo knots, because the most important aspect of eyesight is, "Don't look at things you aren't supposed to see. Don't look for trouble. Don't
…t advocates not to dwell on others' faults or listen to gossip, which can disturb peace and lead to unnecessary conflicts. By controlling our vision and auditory input, we improve our mindset and relati…
Managing Gossip and Compliments for a Peaceful Mind
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Managing Gossip and Compliments for a Peaceful Mind
When some people learn they are being gossiped about, they become so furious that they could kill the person who started the rumor. But if we know how to turn our ears into a wok handles, those words
…ents taught us that maintaining this discipline leads to a fulfilling and successful life, avoiding unnecessary complications in relationships.
The Importance of Honest Work in Family Life
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The Importance of Honest Work in Family Life
…y job they did throughout their lives, they could tell their stories proudly: "Ever since we were young, when we had to get a job, even if it was to empty or to clean the toilets, we would take that job…
การทำงานอย่างซื่อสัตย์เป็นสิ่งสำคัญที่สามารถสร้างความภาคภูมิใจในครอบครัว แม้จะมีงานที่มีสถานะต่ำ แต่ก็ไม่ควรอายที่จะทำงานอย่างเต็มใจและมีคุณธรรม การทำงานที่มีคุณธรรมจะทำให้จิตใจสงบและลดความริษยา สามาร
Understanding the Three Characteristics of Existence
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Understanding the Three Characteristics of Existence
When we receive fortune, prestige, recognition or happiness, our minds will remain calm, not overwhelmed or attached. A pe…
This text elaborates on the Three Characteristics: impermanence, suffering, and non-self, as fundamental truths of existence in Buddhism. It highlights how fortune, prestige, and happiness are tem…
The Warm Hearted Family: Managing Family Life
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The Warm Hearted Family: Managing Family Life
we must train our minds to be calm and be ever ready for life's uncertainties. If we are well-prepared for the unexpected, we will be able to control our mind to rema…
เราต้องฝึกจิตใจให้สงบและเตรียมพร้อมสำหรับความไม่แน่นอนในชีวิต ถ้าเราเตรียมตัวดี ความไม่แน่นอนจะไม่ทำให้เครียด ผู้ที่เห็นความจริงของชีวิตและรักษาจิตใจให้นิ่งจะยกระดับคุณธรรมได้ดียิ่งขึ้น คำแนะนำจากปู่ย
Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love)
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Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love)
Chapter 3 Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love) In the book Thirty-eight Universal Steps to Eternal Happiness, compiled for the summer program for ordained monks by the Venera…
In Chapter 3 of 'Thirty-eight Universal Steps to Eternal Happiness', the concept of cherishing love within marriage is explored by V…
The Four Universal Forms of Benevolence
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The Four Universal Forms of Benevolence
…ed this question in one word: benevolence. That is to say mutual benevolence, the practice the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence (Sangahavatthu), promote happiness in living together. 1. Giving (Dana)…
This text discusses the Buddha's concept of mutual benevolence as the foundation for happiness in relationships. It outlines the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence: Giving, …