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A Successful Marriage For example, a relationship is compared with a bird in our hands. If we grasp it too tight, the bird will die and we will lose it forever. To keep it with us, we must learn to hold it gently and with great care. Moreover, husbands and wives should learn to please each other with sharing, sweet words and help. They should also act properly so as to learn what a wife should do for a husband and what a husband should do for a wife. There are a lot more tactics which can not all be explained here. Although the advice here may be quite a good guideline for leading a married life, sometimes it does not work for some people. If it does not, the cause of the break up may be explained by the law of karma. In the Buddhist worldview, separation is a sign that the couple's time to reap the fruit of their good deeds, which they had done together in the previous lifetime, is at an end. Thus, each of them is forced to separately walk their own path according to their karma. For women whose married life suffers 51