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"War of Existence." Winning is accomplished by having a clear mind before departing. This is absolutely necessary. Therefore, when our relatives are ill, regardless of our closeness to them or the severity of their illness, we should be able to take good care of them physically and psychologically. When our children are mature enough, we should teach them to look after their own health and sympathize with their relatives. Teaching them to care for others will clearly show them the truth about life that everybody must die. Further more, when it is time for us to go, they can help us win the "War of Existence." Chapter 19 The Unconditional Love of Parents Teach Child to Ca The Warm Hearted Family 182 Critically I Relative In the economically driven world in which we live, it is difficult for most parents to find enough time to spend with their children. Sometimes the children are "raised" by the television set or video console as their parents work. They grow up practically without parental guidance or instruction, not knowing the causes and consequences of things, the difference between moral and immoral behavior, or how to temper their emotions. Not knowing the value of having parents, they begin to despise them. They cannot appreciate all the hardships and sacrifices their parents have endured for them. They think that it is their parents' duty, since they brought them into the world, to raise and give them everything they desire. In the end, it is the parents who feel the heartaches and disappointment. The Warm Hearted Family 183 The Unconditional Love of Parents