Understanding Adultery and Alcoholism in Marriage : หน้า 102/207
The Warm Hearted Family : หน้า 102/207 Explore the complexities of marital relationships involving cheating and alcoholism, and learn how to address these challenges effectively.
This text discusses the factors leading to infidelity and alcoholism in marriage. It encourages wives to introspectively examine their own shortcomings and emphasizes the importance of calmness through meditation. The text warns against retaliatory actions for an unfaithful husband and suggests that maintaining dignity and performing good deeds may lead to a positive change over time. It also addresses the challenges of dealing with an alcoholic partner, emphasizing the long-term consequences of wrong choices in marriage. Ultimately, the message is about resilience and self-awareness in navigating marital difficulties. More insights are available at dmc.tv.
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-adultery in marriage -coping with cheating husbands -handling alcoholism in relationships -self-reflection for couples -impact of choices on family dynamics
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1) A husband strays because he lacks something from
his wife
Although this is a very difficult task, a wife needs to
understand the shortcomings she may have which influenced
her husband to cheat. Searching for one's own shortcomings
requires us to first calm the mind. There is no better way to
attain clarity other than practicing meditation everyday. The
smallest flaws of others are perceived as enormous, while we
cannot recognize our own huge and appalling flaws. When
we close our eyes to meditate, we can only see ourselves. Our
flaws will slowly come into view. The calmer our minds
become, the more we will see. If we can begin to see our own
flaws, a way to remedy them will also emerge.
There is one thing about which I would like to warn the
wife who has an adulterous husband: do not resort to black
magic or vindictive behavior just to spite him. This is not the
solution, and it will only fuel the flames of animosity.
2) A cheating husband may be adulterous by habit
This type is very difficult to remedy, so a spouse can
only endure and consider it the sad consequence of not
assessing people well and for choosing someone like that as a
husband. You can only control your own behavior, and it is
best to retain your dignity by not retaliating in kind.
Changing an adulterous husband requires time. Continue
to perform good deeds so that he will feel appreciative. Perhaps
he will stop his adulterous ways. Even though this may require
many years, it is really all that we can do.
Confronting an Alcoholic Husband
Luang Phaw also had recommendations for this situation:
If a wife finds herself married to an alcoholic husband, it
requires her to analyze and come to terms with the fact that
this may be due to her erroneous choices.
The first choice she made was to marry instead of
remaining single.
The second choice she made was to marry a man who
drank excessively.
Having an alcoholic father and husband in the household
is detrimental to the children. As children they see his drunken
and disorderly conduct and become belligerent too. They learn
from his example and may grow up to be alcoholics
themselves. A wife must correct this tendency in her children
as diligently as she can.
The married life is not easy. If you make the wrong
choices from the beginning, you will have to deal with the
consequences for the rest of your life.
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