Building Strong Relationships: The Importance of Self-Reliance Before Marriage : หน้า 21/216

Part One: Family Life When life partners learn how to resolve their mental baggage and restrain their negative emotions, they will be able to maintain a sense of positive regard for one another. Partners who discard their poor habits and negative behavior will always bring about constructive bonds that build strong relationships. What characteristics should we possess before we marry? 1. Self-Reliance: "Faulty expectations bring disappointment" When we lack self-confidence, we rely on someone else to help us with the challenges in life. There are many people who marry because they want someone else to take care of all of their problems for them. Some people find a partner based solely on beauty. Unfortunately, this is short-lived and/or expensive to maintain. If the search for a life partner is based solely on 'dependence', then resentment or fighting will ensue whenever they no longer feel secure with one another. The right frame of mind before marriage is "I must depend on myself! " Independence is a key factor in developing ourself before we decide on a partner! We should be responsible, truthful, self-disciplined, and generous. We must be able to understand the concept of self-sacrifice. By acquiring knowledge, life skills and ethical principles before marriage, we will be able to enhance the other person and the bond between you throughout the rest of your lives. Family Day By Day 19 Thoughts Before Starting A Family