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Part Four: Harmony Within the Family 1. Keep them away from worries. Do not let them hear about problems at home, their children's problems, or anything that might cause them to become unnecessarily distracted. 2. Bring their mind to a state of happiness by reminding them of the boonya they have made in the past. Talk about the virtuous deeds that they have performed, including community service and the aid they gave to others. 3. Encourage them to perform new boonya depending on their capability. Invite them to be generous by giving aid to social service institutions or community service organizations. If they cannot get up, invite friendly and kind visitors in. If this is not convenient, then perhaps it may be suitable for you to give aid on their behalf. 4. Persuade them to observe as many of the universally good deeds as they can. They should not lie, steal, kill, or commit any sexual misconduct. 5. Invite them to meditate! This is very important. We could also have the patient listen to chanting or scriptures of wise ones. We could invite someone that our beloved one respects to talk to them about Dhamma. We can read books to them. 6. Talk to them about their final thoughts. What are their wishes? What are their needs? Be certain that all family members know of them. Family Day By Day 103 Caring for Critically Ill Relatives