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Part Three: Problems Within the Family are. Help them discern how they need to think about where they spend their money, and who they spend their money on. Any person who does not have a healthy attitude toward the opposite sex needs to be avoided. What is healthy? Respectful, responsible, and caring! Help them learn that when a person says "NO!" "they mean "NO!" Any person, then, who solicits sex, no matter what the circumstance, has their appearance, reputation and inner self worth tainted with desire, deterioration, disaster and damage. From the moment they begin to behave inappropriately, people around them will view them with ever increasing suspicions. So many things go through people's minds. They could very well ask themselves: Does that person have AIDS? Do they have STD's? What kind of attitude toward women/men do they really have? Why would I want to hang out with them? A potential partner of someone who solicits sex must totally want to waste their money on supporting their negative behavior! As parents, if we support such negative behavior in our children, there is no hope that sexual misconduct, rape and physical abuse caused by sexual desires will ever stop ruling their lives! Gambling Even before the first whistle in an athletic contest is blown, many people have already placed their bets on a winning team using borrowed money, their own salaries, their children's school tuition and their personal allowances. Bookies are filled with joy when they see the amounts of how much money they will collect. Most people do not think about this when they watch a sporting match, but such gambling has tremendous effects on the entire family. Family Day By Day 85 Husbands and Wives