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Part One: Family Life control them until they become slaves to it. Because kilesa affects good habits, our family's health and stability depends on training ourselves to: 1. Control the bad habits within ourselves and prevent them from influencing others; 2. Resist the temptations of drinking alcohol, gambling, lazy work habits, interpersonal power struggles, harmful night life and exotic entertainment. If we practice self control in these areas, then our family's interpersonal relationships will be more stable, and our own personal minds will strengthen. By doing this, we will increase the chances of stabilizing our financial situation. If everyone in our family can teach themselves to have "endurance" in these areas, then everyone's individual habits will improve and the family's financial situation will stabilize. Good people will be in our life and unhealthy people will stay away! CAGA: Sacrifice Sacrifice means Charity and it means Compassion! We need to be willing to sacrifice material objects, comfort, and our own emotions. Sacrifice within the family means being generous and it means placing our own family ahead of ourselves. This is not an easy thing to do! Our marriage is dependent upon the sacrifice that we and our partner are willing to give to one another. If there is no sacrifice, then our family environment cannot be supportive. If our family does not practice charity and compassion for the benefit of one another and instead takes advantage of each another, our family will disintegrate. In other words, as a family, we Family Day By Day 30 Four Keys to Avoiding Marriage Problems