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Part One of this exploration highlights the complexities of family life, particularly the impact of in-laws on relationships and the necessity of resolving personal issues before marriage. The text emphasizes the vital question of mutual tolerance between partners and warns against the dangers of kilesa, or negative behaviors that can harm relationships. It asserts that bad habits can lead to ethical dilemmas and addiction, noting the importance of choosing healthy companionship to avoid falling into destructive patterns. Navigating through these challenges requires self-awareness and commitment to overcome personal obstacles for a lasting marriage.

หัวข้อประเด็น

-Family dynamics
-The role of in-laws
-Endurance in relationships
-Conflict resolution strategies
-Negative behaviors and kilesa
-Ethics and morality in marriage
-Avoiding bad habits

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Part One: Family Life if there are in-laws heavily involved in our relationship, we will have to endure conflicts from them as well. No matter how good a relationship is, we will inevitably encounter conflict. Of course, it is better to resolve any weakness we think we might have PRIOR to our marriage! "It is like Tongue and Teeth - They always bump into each other!" The real question that we and our partner have to ask each other is: "Are we sure that we can tolerate each other in the long run?" If we are not sure, then we should run - not walk - away. Do not ask how many carats there are in the engagement ring, how much money you will get, or how well your partner can cook. Instead, ask "Are you sure you can tolerate me? Endurance also means that we have to put up with our own kilesa, or negative behavior. Kilesa is dangerous to relationships because we allow these bad habits to control us so that we suffer and experience distress, leading us to feel guilty and self-critical. Some people are controlled by their bad habits, and consistently make wrong decisions. In the end, they will no longer have any sense of right or wrong (morality or ethics) and may continue their bad habits until they develop possible addictions which are even MORE difficult to correct. Apayamukha is the word for the roads that we use when we allow bad habits to rule our life. The people we know while we travel this "bad habit road" may not be healthy for us because they may be spreading their bad habits out to us as well. The kilesa in their own mind will Family Day By Day 29 Four Keys to Avoiding Marriage Problems
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