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Part Four: Harmony Within the Family: resentment and conflict. This problem usually occurs in a family where everyone is busy with their own activities and do not have time for one another. No one knows what could be bothering the other person. This is why a family should regularly eat dinner together. Eating together allows family members the opportunity to voice their concerns and to give advice to others because people are often in a better mood when they are full. We can use this time to demonstrate good habits and etiquette to our children. Dinner is an important meal that should always be reserved for the family. Another situation that leads to disunity in the family is food preparation. Many times, today's married couples argue over food. If they only make an effort to order out, eating while their eyes are glued to the television set, their mind easily wanders outside their body. Perhaps they might even start thinking about how the characters on television are much more attractive than our own spouses! Married couples should also consider visiting their in-laws together to share family time. Do we accompany our spouses or let them go alone? If they go alone, we know that neglect can quickly lead to a failed marriage. Engaging in activities as a family builds strong bonds. In conclusion, creating harmony in a family is easy. It starts with an activity where all members can be involved. Dinner is the easiest and best activity. Family members should come together to talk about various issues. Talk to one other with reason, even though everyone may not share the same view. Doing things together has benefits that will create warmth and unity within the whole family. Family Day By Day 92 Creating Harmony Within the Family