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but answer me within the next seven days what virtues you think you have to pass on to your prospective wife and children.” Khun Yay had driven it home to him with the advice: “Phadet! You’ll never make a go of it in the lay life because you’re too kind-hearted. You’ll feel sorry for people and give away everything you own. If you have a family relying on you, then you’ll all face hardship. You were born to pursue perfection – not for any other path in life. If you ordain, that is your pathway to fulfilment in life. You have the potential to see and know the reality of all that is in the Buddhist Scriptures.” In time, Luang Phaw Dattajevo was to ordain on 19 December 1971. Everything went well for him except that he had to exercise special self-control not to continue using the gestures of respect for Khun Yay he had used all along as a layman. Now he was a monk, with more Precepts than Khun Yay as a nun, it was no longer right for him to put his hands in a gesture of respect to her, even if he thought she deserved it. Khun Yay knew his difficulty and brought him to his senses with the words, “Don’t do that – otherwise the demerit will be mine!” In 1973, the new temple was ready for the Working Group to move from its former base in Dhammaprasit House. Ven. Dattajevo was in his second year of monkhood. The amenities in the temple provided almost all the necessary conveniences for accommodation. Khun Yay would attend to these monks needs by regularly sending Phra Kru Palad Wanchai Silavanno (at that time not yet ordained)